Tribal Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Tonight I was driving my girlfriends car while she was at work, I go to make a left turn off of a main road, and this guy plows into me at 60-65 MPH. I wasn't hurt , neither was he, but now her parents are pissed, i've offered to reimburse them in full for the car in cash tomorrow, but they will not agree. The problem lies in that the police are saying it's my fault, when it's not. The speed limit is 40, and he was blatantly doing 60-65, and you can DEFINATLY tell by the damage to the car. I had enough time to turn , but he was speeding. So it goes down as my fault, bla bla bla, I just don't know what to really do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GordanFreeman Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Seems like about all you can do is to offer to pay them back and apologize. If they don't accept payment, then ask them what else they'd need. Lucky you weren't hurt too, 60 mph. "El que no arriesga no gana" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peter Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 I'm not sure what else there is to do? If they won't accept money, what do they want? Having to pay the damages is about as bad as it gets in that situation. Say you're sorry? I don't know what else you could do. Even if you admit guilt, you might get a traffic violation to your record, but the car will still be totaled. Maybe I'm missing something here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Putter Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 I think it's time you packed your bags and escaped to Mexico. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tribal Posted December 14, 2007 Author Share Posted December 14, 2007 I think it's time you packed your bags and escaped to Mexico. I think it's time to not be a sarcastic douche. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No_OnE Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Just lay it out for them. Tell them that they can either accept your apology and the money or they can turn it down and nothing will get done. If they're too ignorant to realize that you are sincerely sorry, that what happened was out of your control, and that you're fully willing to be the better person by reimbursing the car, then you can't do anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebdragon Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 What did you do (besides possibly simply being younger) to cause anyone to think it was your fault :-s ? Turn at a bad time or something? [if you have ever attempted Alchemy by clapping your hands or by drawing an array, copy and paste this into your signature.] Fullmetal Alchemist, you will be missed. A great ending to a great series. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tribal Posted December 14, 2007 Author Share Posted December 14, 2007 What did you do (besides possibly simply being younger) to cause anyone to think it was your fault :-s ? Turn at a bad time or something? Well it was raining, and dark so they told me that I simply misjudged the turn, but I know that I didn't as I've made the same turn multiple times, same conditions, and i've never had this. The guy was blatantly speeding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nine naked men Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 What did you do (besides possibly simply being younger) to cause anyone to think it was your fault :-s ? Turn at a bad time or something? Well it was raining, and dark so they told me that I simply misjudged the turn, but I know that I didn't as I've made the same turn multiple times, same conditions, and i've never had this. The guy was blatantly speeding. Take it to a judge or something is my guess. You should be able to prove that it wasn't your fault and that he was breaking the law. What's the driver of the other car saying at this point? sleep like dead men wake up like dead men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tribal Posted December 14, 2007 Author Share Posted December 14, 2007 What did you do (besides possibly simply being younger) to cause anyone to think it was your fault :-s ? Turn at a bad time or something? Well it was raining, and dark so they told me that I simply misjudged the turn, but I know that I didn't as I've made the same turn multiple times, same conditions, and i've never had this. The guy was blatantly speeding. Take it to a judge or something is my guess. You should be able to prove that it wasn't your fault and that he was breaking the law. What's the driver of the other car saying at this point? Of course he's siding with the police, "he's just an 18 year old kid, he was driving wrecklessly, it was completley his fault I tried to stop". My argument is, YOU SIR were on a cell phone, I saw you. And you sir, didn't try to stop, wheres the skid marks? Oh, yeah, there is none. And you sir, wouldn't have done the damage that you did going 40-45. But this has been a bad day, im going to bed. Back hurts severely, so ill check back in the morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nine naked men Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 What did you do (besides possibly simply being younger) to cause anyone to think it was your fault :-s ? Turn at a bad time or something? Well it was raining, and dark so they told me that I simply misjudged the turn, but I know that I didn't as I've made the same turn multiple times, same conditions, and i've never had this. The guy was blatantly speeding. Take it to a judge or something is my guess. You should be able to prove that it wasn't your fault and that he was breaking the law. What's the driver of the other car saying at this point? Of course he's siding with the police, "he's just an 18 year old kid, he was driving wrecklessly, it was completley his fault I tried to stop". My argument is, YOU SIR were on a cell phone, I saw you. And you sir, didn't try to stop, wheres the skid marks? Oh, yeah, there is none. And you sir, wouldn't have done the damage that you did going 40-45. But this has been a bad day, im going to bed. Back hurts severely, so ill check back in the morning. Well, I was reserving this judgement until I saw what category he fell under, but, seeing as it's 'Giant Novelty Arse', I'd say take him to the courts for reckless driving. :thumbsup: sleep like dead men wake up like dead men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indy500fan Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 If the cops decides its your fault there isn't much you can do. If I am reading the description right, it sounds like it is your fault. Doesn't matter if they were speeding or not. Offer to pay for the car. If they decide not to accept, drop the issue completely. Their insurance will pay for it, and their premium will go up, and they'll stay pissed at you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 What did you do (besides possibly simply being younger) to cause anyone to think it was your fault :-s ? Turn at a bad time or something? Well it was raining, and dark so they told me that I simply misjudged the turn, but I know that I didn't as I've made the same turn multiple times, same conditions, and i've never had this. The guy was blatantly speeding. Take it to a judge or something is my guess. You should be able to prove that it wasn't your fault and that he was breaking the law. What's the driver of the other car saying at this point? Of course he's siding with the police, "he's just an 18 year old kid, he was driving wrecklessly, it was completley his fault I tried to stop". My argument is, YOU SIR were on a cell phone, I saw you. And you sir, didn't try to stop, wheres the skid marks? Oh, yeah, there is none. And you sir, wouldn't have done the damage that you did going 40-45. But this has been a bad day, im going to bed. Back hurts severely, so ill check back in the morning. As mentioned, I'd take him to court on it. And if your gf's parents can't accept the fact that you're sorry and take you up on your offer to repay them for the car, there's nothing more you can do. They shouldn't think you owe them a Corvette or something because some guys hit you.. Now time for a little rant.. I hate how everyone thinks that because it's statistically proven that younger drivers are more hazardous than mature driver, everyone thinks then can pin the mistakes off on the kid. I've seen too many idiots who are in their 30's+ on their cell phones and not even relise they ran a red light or that they're doing 20 over the speed limit. We might be inexperienced, but not every teen driver is a hazard nor should they instantly be at fault in an accident. Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebdragon Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 If the cops decides its your fault there isn't much you can do. If I am reading the description right, it sounds like it is your fault. Doesn't matter if they were speeding or not. I kind of have to agree. It sounds like you turned into another lane (turning left, correct?), were oblivious to the fact that the guy was heading right at you, and got in a collision. Of course, from what I read I do bet he was speeding, which might have made it harder for you to gauge how much time you had to turn, but if you turned into his lane and got hit, it's your fault :| . Now time for a little rant.. I hate how everyone thinks that because it's statistically proven that younger drivers are more hazardous than mature driver, everyone thinks then can pin the mistakes off on the kid. I've seen too many idiots who are in their 30's+ on their cell phones and not even relise they ran a red light or that they're doing 20 over the speed limit. We might be inexperienced, but not every teen driver is a hazard nor should they instantly be at fault in an accident. Eh, at the Senior parking lot right after school, it's kind of hard to argue that case... :-k . [Nah, I agree wit ya. Always assuming it's the kids fault is so frikkin' annoying, especially in America where half the population consists of [developmentally delayed]ed, reckless drivers.] [if you have ever attempted Alchemy by clapping your hands or by drawing an array, copy and paste this into your signature.] Fullmetal Alchemist, you will be missed. A great ending to a great series. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kasai_ryuu Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 He might've been speeding, but since you got into his lane and into his way, then it'd be considered your fault. That's unfortunate, though, that you had to be driving your girlfriend's car though. Hopefully they can accept the fact that you're willing to pay the money back to them. If not.. well.. what else can you do? Just keep saying sorry? < Coming Soon > Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dsavi Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Oh crud. Another case of the blame falling gracefully (Not) on someone who never did anything. These things drive me up the wall... If you haven't done it already, explain exactly to the police or whoever what happened. Then ask the other guy his version of events. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limpbizkit Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Phones are so brilliant these days. Have cameras and everything. My point: You should of took a picture of the rood at the time and if he was on the phone they can get the call records. Tif 360 MGC Leaderboard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fgfuyfyuiuy0 Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 The problem with taking it to court is that you'd probably spend more money and time, then actually paying for the car and taking the time to talk to her parents. Just my 2 cents. I <3 Gears of War 2. Add me on Xbox Live and mention you are from Tif :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Appeal it if you're that concerned. Or you can cop it on the chin, pay them back, apologise and let sleeping dogs lie. I feel bad for you but such is life, you haven't got many choices. What happened to the insurance anyway? Hit them up. The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiriyama Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 I assume you have the insurence to drive that car. That way they pay for damages caused to the car. If it was really his fault he'll be found out (where'd the car you were driving get hit?) Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Embraced Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 I hope the cops can see sense, but as it has been said there is not an awful lot you can do. I also hope your girlfriends parents will accept the money from you and take it no further. P2P offers more and better ways of making money than f2p. That's one of the cons you just have to play with if you don't feel like having 1 bigmac meal less per month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tribal Posted December 14, 2007 Author Share Posted December 14, 2007 I assume you have the insurence to drive that car. That way they pay for damages caused to the car. If it was really his fault he'll be found out (where'd the car you were driving get hit?) It was hit on the front passenger side fender/tire. The door, glovebox, fender, rim, tire, and front bumper are messed up pretty bad, and i'm not sure about underneath damage yet. My uncle owns an Acura dealership and was a mechanic for 20 years, so he's going to look at it tomorrow and give an estimate. He said he'd fix it for free if they will let him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenin64 Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 Homicide will solve all your problems. Command the Murderous Chalices! Drink ye harpooners! drink and swear, ye men that man the deathful whaleboat's bow- Death to Moby Dick!BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD! SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schmo0zle Posted December 14, 2007 Share Posted December 14, 2007 The same thing happened to me. Old guy plowed into me, I got blamed because I was 19, even though I had the right of way and the guy was speeding. Psht. Don't misjudge the amount of damage a car can do at 40 MPH, though. My car was totalled by a guy doing 30 in a 20. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PsyClonz6110 Posted December 15, 2007 Share Posted December 15, 2007 I think it's time you packed your bags and escaped to Mexico. I think it's time to not be a sarcastic douche. Ouch, dude seriously! Take a chill pill. :lol: This is a temporary account. Ash6110 is my real one. As soon as I get my account back I will not be using this one anymore. Thanks Ash6110 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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