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One of my girlfriends ex roommates was with a guy for 4 years, moved in together last year. His friend was down on luck so he couch surfed with the couple for a while. Boyfriend comes home and the girl says she banged his friend and he needs to move out. Poor guy had almost nothing to his name from sharing so many things. And one less friend. So things could be worse saq haha

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I don't know yet what to do. I am torn between 2 girls and one of them is completely innocent, mega-shy and silent girl. The other is the exact opposite.

I have never rejected a girl, but this town is too small for risking seeing 2 girls at the same time.

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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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I don't know yet what to do. I am torn between 2 girls and one of them is completely innocent, mega-shy and silent girl. The other is the exact opposite.

I have never rejected a girl, but this town is too small for risking seeing 2 girls at the same time.

Why do you think that she'll be devastated by rejection? Is she ugly or something?

 

Why do you think they won't tolerate you dating multiple women? Did you give off the vibe that you don't have many options and only date one girl at a time?

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I don't know yet what to do. I am torn between 2 girls and one of them is completely innocent, mega-shy and silent girl. The other is the exact opposite.

I have never rejected a girl, but this town is too small for risking seeing 2 girls at the same time.

Why do you think that she'll be devastated by rejection? Is she ugly or something?

 

Why do you think they won't tolerate you dating multiple women? Did you give off the vibe that you don't have many options and only date one girl at a time?

 

 

It could just be one of those things where there's a lot of gossip and he-said, she-said and that's something I wouldn't be surprised he might not want to deal with.

It could just be looked down on, the idea of "playing" two girls even if in reality, dating more than one person is perfectly fine.

 

I can't generalise but quite often some girls don't like the idea of the person they're seeing to be seeing somebody else (especially not someone they know)

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There's a difference between dating someone and being in a monogamous relationship with someone. When you're just dating and not "together" you aren't obligated to keep yourself boxed in the confines of a monogamous relationship, although it is courteous let let the other person know that you are seeing other people along with them. 

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It's. It cheating if it's consensual on all parties. My buddy is now in an open relation but chose to start sleeping with another girl in our large group of friends and I'm just like whyyyyyy. The world is full of people why are you sleeping with someone your girlfriend knows and will commonly be around. Just seems like a poor decision

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It's. It cheating if it's consensual on all parties. My buddy is now in an open relation but chose to start sleeping with another girl in our large group of friends and I'm just like whyyyyyy. The world is full of people why are you sleeping with someone your girlfriend knows and will commonly be around. Just seems like a poor decision

 

It's not cheating if it's consensual. Cheating basically means you promise to be monogamous but then you're secretly not monogamous behind their back while acting like you're still monogamous. That's why it's called cheating :P

 

It's no longer monogamy even if it's consensual though.

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My phone derped. First two words should read "it's not" not "it's it"

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Pansexual polyamory is the way to go. FWB with everyone. I gotta say ever since I moved and lost 58 pounds I catch girls eyeing me up all the time. It's a huge confidence booster but I'm still not quite able to clinch the deal when I talk. I've been told by a friend "The moment things start feeling awkward, offer her your number"

 

I feel like that's real bold, but nice and nonthreatening. Thoughts?

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I'd say he's right. Keep that mentality on a date too, because that's your opening for a first kiss later as well

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Aaaaand I find myself in a relationship.

No regrets, so far.

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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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Is it really that bad?

 

And I am in a relationship with the girl I started talking about in September...

The super-shy one. Turns out not so shy in the sheets.

And she is hard-working, quite pretty and conscientious. Total opposite to me in that case, which is what I like.

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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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It's just that you spout all these vague issues that end up being nothing. Then when you do have something to share, there's still no details. It's like instead of reading a book someone just shouted the ending and walked away every time you have something to share with us here

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It's just that you spout all these vague issues that end up being nothing. Then when you do have something to share, there's still no details. It's like instead of reading a book someone just shouted the ending and walked away every time you have something to share with us here

I think he just wants his posts to be a bit more dramatic so he writes cliffhangers and excess conflict into all of them :P

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I just don't want to share the details of anything. It is way too easy to connect my display name here with my real identity.

If I end up writing something too detailed and someone might want to read it, I might offend or insult someone too badly.

 

And I ain't much of a writer anyways.

 

I wrote that I had things going with another chick aswell, turned out she was a bit too psycho still.

Too much of a drama queen, managed to make me lash out eventually.

She did not take it kindly.

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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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You could change your username if you're that paranoid, I understand it's your real life nickname of sorts. Though unless you go around telling and showing people you post here I don't see why anyone you know would ever make the connection

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