muggiwhplar Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 Made a subtle, but significant, change to my profile text on the dating sites. Changed a part from "I don't like giving orders or being told what to do..." to "I don't like giving orders outside the bedroom or being told what to do." Response rate and first date rate have gone WAY up! Lots of hot girls initiating contact w/ me too. Wish Ginger still posted here so I could be like, "See! I told you girls prefer dominant guys!" :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalphite Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 when a girl hangs out with you and is touching and cuddling with you the whole night and texts you three days later saying she's going on a date with another guy >>>>>>>>>>> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonez899 Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Sarcasm? Sarcasm, I do believe it is sarcasm! http://forum.tip.it/topic/325514-bonez899s-journey-to-an-eventual-max/ My blog of progress on Runescape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Not like she's your girlfriend dude 1 Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 when a girl hangs out with you and is touching and cuddling with you the whole night and texts you three days later saying she's going on a date with another guy >>>>>>>>>>>When you say "cuddling the whole night," that sounds like friendzone behavior. You should be getting sexual instead; and if she isn't into you sexually, then you leave Sex precedes cuddling. Otherwise you get friendzoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estonian dude Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 Not necessarily. Some girls don't jump at the idea of sex on first date or whatnot. Cuddling might be the most they are willing to take it. So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends. RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.I strike out every other week.Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.Randox pretty much stays rational.Etc, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 That's true in highs school saq, not the real world 1 Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tim Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 If I was given the chance from a hot guy who managed to turn me on, i'd jump into bed with him in a heartbeat. Mind you I'm also picky with guys as I dont dig "daddys" or 18 year old idiots which limits me because that's all that's here :v Popoto.~<3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalphite Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 completely aware of everything everyone here is saying, just was a little frustrating lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 Not necessarily. Some girls don't jump at the idea of sex on first date or whatnot. Cuddling might be the most they are willing to take it.If they dont put out on the first date but they'll put out on the second or third, cuddling on the first date will only hurt your chances and make you look like a "nice guy" to them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obfuscator Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 WHAT IF ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS CUDDLE THEN EH? "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I'd say that if you're cuddling you're miles ahead of someone in the friendzone. Who cuddles with their friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I'd say that if you're cuddling you're miles ahead of someone in the friendzone. Who cuddles with their friends?Most women 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I'd say that if you're cuddling you're miles ahead of someone in the friendzone. Who cuddles with their friends?Most women My experience with female friends is vastly different than yours it seems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I'd say that if you're cuddling you're miles ahead of someone in the friendzone. Who cuddles with their friends?Most womenMy experience with female friends is vastly different than yours it seems.Aren't you a virgin though >_> My point is: cuddling with a woman isn't something you should be celebrating since if you haven't banged her yet, it's only going to make it more difficult to bang her in the future. I get the feeling that some of you guys are falling into the trap of being affectionate and loving towards women first, and expecting sex (and a relationship) to just fall nicely into place afterwards. That's not how it works unless your goal is to have a platonic friendship. If you want long-term happiness then sex comes first, affection comes second. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 Here I'll just quote an old post from a mentor of mine which sums up my thoughts on the friendzone (and cuddling, etc): We have 2 needs.Until you balance these 2 needs your life with women will be in conflict.Need 1: Sexual Debauchery[bleep]sFacialsHandjobsThreesomesQuickiesThongsBangin' AssesSlutsBig [bleep]Need 2: Feminine EnergyCuteSmilesBright EyesEnthusiasmReassuranceLaughterSnuggleBeautyKindnessShy lookInspirationCompassionAdventureArt, PoetrySoftPeace1.Guys with 1itis (who haven't had sex with the girl yet) have too much Need 2and suppress Need 1.That's fine, but the goal is to start a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with a woman.For some strange reason sex gets her more emotionally and physically investedin you (go figure) giving you a much better chance of enjoying herfeminine essence for a MUCH longer time in a MUCH better role.I'm convinced these guys don't want to [bleep] their 1itis. They are contentjust basking in her feminine aura (need 2).IOW, they're just happy to be there.My friend asked me how he could "get" this girl he's liked since highschool.I told him he will never get her because I believe he doesn't really want to[bleep] her.He is so awed by her feminine energy he can't believe that she wants to betaken and [bleep]ed hard.Thus he doesn't project & subcom enough sexuality around her, thus he willnever seduce her, thus he will never "GET" herThese types can't or don't want to picture their special girl as a sexualbeing so they subconsciously neuter themselves and become her gal pal in thehopes of spending more time around her and sucking up her feminine essencelike a vampire.We tell these guys to GFTOW but they really just need to learn how to want to[bleep] ONE woman. Their 1itis.Until they realize that the same "special" woman in which they experiencedtrue feminine beauty (list 2) is the same woman who would truly ENJOYdeepthroating their [rooster], they will never have the sexual vibe/presence necessaryto SEDUCE their 1itis and lead her to the bedroom.Getting the girl MEANS starting a sexual relationship.When you become needy for FEMININE ENERGY you forget about your sexualdrive.It's much harder to start a sexual relationship (get the girl) when sex is5th on the list of things you want from her. Right after self esteem,compassion, understanding, and a cute smile.It's funny because women think all guys are only after one thing, sex.If they only knew how many guys hang around just to leech off their feminineenergy due to their own NEEDINESS, they would be shocked.2.I enjoy feminine energy and sex equally.In fact, if someone asked me why I am here and what my goals are, I wouldsay...- To have more sex- To be around & enjoy feminine energyBut when I was younger I had 2 problems1. I had a NEEDY desire for feminine energy2. I suppressed my true sexual desiresIOW, my NEEDY desire for the feminine outweighed even my desire to get a[bleep].As you can imagine this lowered my sexual drive around the girls I reallyliked.This always led to not [bleep]ing them, thus only getting to enjoy theirfeminine energy the few times I was around them as the "friend". The sexuallyconfident guys got the [bleep] and got to enjoy their feminine energy.Bastards! LOLThese girls could sense my NEEDINESSNot my neediness for SEX... but my neediness for the FEMININE.For their softness, their beauty, their love, their kindness, theirreassurance.I was not a man yet.I had to learn to be happy being alone.I had to learn to love myself first.After a long journey I can now enjoy feminine energy but I don't NEED it.I appreciate it and I want it in my life... but I don't NEED it and I amdefinitely not afraid of it.I step to women as a sexual man first, never apologizing for my desires...butbesides sex, I love feminine energy.I tried to explain it in words, but no matter how you define it, feminineenergy is one of the great pleasures in life.3.The so called "bad boys" do good with women because they are tuned into need#1 and don't apologize for it.They have the sexual threat part down.This is attractive to women.But, some of these guys (as tough as they act) are scared of need #2.THEY FEAR THE FEMININEThus, they call all girls sluts and [bleep]They are scared to have relationships. (see LG thread below).Some men who get burned by the feminine become bitter and only focus on need1."All girls are sluts blah, blah, blah"If you think like this you are also out of balance* * * * *Tap into the power of need 1 and let it enhance your overall sexual presence.Never be ashamed or apologize for it. Even your special snowflake wouldrather you want her because you find her sexy than because you want to hide fromthe harsh world in the bosom of her feminine energy.This will lead to starting more sexual relationships (what society callsgetting the girl), giving you the chance to enjoy her feminine energy from amuch better position.Is she screens well, than you may choose to spend more time around thatenergy.But don't let fear of the feminine or one bad experience turn you into ajaded guy who thinks women are all untrustworthy and only good for sex.Don't be afraid of feminine energy. Appreciate it, enjoy it...just don'tNEED it.Oh, you can never OWN it either.You will not feel complete until both needs are in balance.Yes, one woman can satisfy BOTH needs.60"Feminine energy is best when simply appreciated, not needed" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I'd say that if you're cuddling you're miles ahead of someone in the friendzone. Who cuddles with their friends?Most womenMy experience with female friends is vastly different than yours it seems.Aren't you a virgin though >_> Not anymore actually. But either way neither I or nor anyone I've known has ever cuddled with a platonic friend. Cuddling is pretty much universally seen as an intimate act. Like, if someone in a monogamous relationship saw their partner cuddling with someone else, that'd be grounds for a break up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I posted a picture of myself with my hair back and suddenly I've gotten like 10 tinder matches all at once. Not really sure what to call that style but it was night and day Do you have a man bun? That's like the most attractive men's hair cut at the moment Edit: you look a lot more "alpha" in the top pic. You'd prob do even better w/o sunglasses if you're looking aloofly away from the camera, doing the squinch. It's your vibe/facial expression more than your hair IMO Notice how most of the guys in the top results of all time in ladyboners all have very similar facial expressions/attitudes: https://www.reddit.com/r/LadyBoners/top/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 i edited my post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obfuscator Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 I know of a few women personally who do the whole friend cuddling thing "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 Many a girl I've met cuddle their friends regardless of gender Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lower Levelled Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 Many a girl I've met cuddle their friends regardless of genderI currently have 2 female and 2 male roommates and the girls will cuddle whoever is around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estonian dude Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 5 people living in one room? I'd go nuts in a week.I'm having trouble temporarily living with my brother. And so far, until like 20-21 the not giving in on first date is quite common or even more like a rule here. I can't say for all, but that has been my experience and by now I have some of it. And that is confirmed by my flatmate, who is pretty much muggi in behaviour and philosophies. And he is almost 10 years older than I am and still very actively in the game. So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends. RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.I strike out every other week.Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.Randox pretty much stays rational.Etc, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 5 people living in one room? I'd go nuts in a week.I'm having trouble temporarily living with my brother. And so far, until like 20-21 the not giving in on first date is quite common or even more like a rule here. I can't say for all, but that has been my experience and by now I have some of it. And that is confirmed by my flatmate, who is pretty much muggi in behaviour and philosophies. And he is almost 10 years older than I am and still very actively in the game.That's either a cultural thing or you're just giving off "provider" vibes instead of "player" vibes. In the US, young women (18-22ish) have the least hangups about sex and are the quickest to get into bed. They're all about having fun. As they get older they come up with more and more "rules" for themselves before they'll have sex That said, if you come off as a boring nice guy rather than a player, then you either won't get to have sex with her or she'll make you wait a long time for it. Players get laid on the first date with all kinds of girls all the time, despite the taboo of it. That's why they're players. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lower Levelled Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 Roommates here means we al live in the same house, not all in same room ha.. I believe you guys say flatmates 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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