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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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she was the one who introduced me to RuneScape back 8-9 years ago,




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Now, she always says FRIENDS .. for now. I'm pretty confused





Leave her alone, what's so confusing?
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So much doom and gloom.



I met a girl at the fireworks a few days ago and we hit it off spectacularly. We have mutual friends who are probably horrified at what is now transpiring, considering how similar our demeanors are. Finally, I seem to have found a human of the female persuasion who is as bitter, cynical and inclined to violent solutions as I am.



We met up earlier today and had a great time. Interest appears to have been mutual, because now we're together or something.



I'm going to wait and see what happens. Stay tuned for hilarity, because it will ensue at one point or another.

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Finally, I seem to have found a human of the female persuasion who is as bitter, cynical and inclined to violent solutions as I am.




Favorite part of the post. :XD: Grats man.
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i just went over to Gussy's house today to work on a project with her, her sister, another girl, one of my friends, and myself. We had a great time, and we talked for a good amount of time.



I'm frikkin scared of rejection. I'm not ashamed of my looks, which aren't bad. I'm also not ashamed of my body (which, to tell you the truth, is not bad). I just fear rejection. It kills me! (Not literally)



I'm thinking about asking her on Monday when I get back to school, but I don't want to do it in front of too many people. But, if she does say yes, it'll totally piss off an old friend of mine. But, you can't get everything you want.



Any tips before I ask? Like, how should the tone of my voice be... uh... should I look nice, and uh... how should I say it? Not what to say, but how to.

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Any tips before I ask? Like, how should the tone of my voice be... uh... should I look nice, and uh... how should I say it? Not what to say, but how to.




Alright, well, You're voice should be incredibly high pitched, you should look scruffy, and say it in the form of a broadway musical, and make sure to post vids for us all.



Dude, we can't tell you that stuff, it's plain stupid. Just be confident and if she likes you, and you like her, none of that will matter. But if you choose my advice, do tell me, I'd love to hear it ^.^

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Any tips before I ask? Like, how should the tone of my voice be... uh... should I look nice, and uh... how should I say it? Not what to say, but how to.


It doesn't need to sound like a Hollywood blockbuster; just be confident and do it at the right time (i.e. when you're both close and alone).

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My other friend says to be creative... it's easier to give advice then to take it. #-o

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My other friend says to be creative... it's easier to give advice then to take it. #-o




How would you like to be asked out?
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My other friend says to be creative... it's easier to give advice then to take it. #-o




How would you like to be asked out?




I'd be shocked. It matters who's asking me first of all, and if I don't like her, I wouldn't know what to say.

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I'd be shocked. It matters who's asking me first of all, and if I don't like her, I wouldn't know what to say.


You're missing the point... she didn't ask how you'd react, she's asking how you personally would be impressed by someone who wanted to ask you out.

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How would you like to be asked out?




At gunpoint would be hot.

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How would you like to be asked out?




At gunpoint would be hot.

No, while she has rabid squirrels on her shoulder would be hotter.



Powman, when I first asked someone out, it was in the middle of a hallway before school and I was really scared. But I just said it, and everything worked out. I was scared of rejection too. But the first time I got rejected, I expected to feel like crap, but I didn't feel nearly as bad as I thought it would be. Even if you do get rejected, at least you know you tried.
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I'd be shocked. It matters who's asking me first of all, and if I don't like her, I wouldn't know what to say.


You're missing the point... she didn't ask how you'd react, she's asking how you personally would be impressed by someone who wanted to ask you out.




Then yes, yes I would be. I'd be impressed that she got enough courage (even if she didn't need any) and said it.

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I'd be shocked. It matters who's asking me first of all, and if I don't like her, I wouldn't know what to say.


You're missing the point... she didn't ask how you'd react, she's asking how you personally would be impressed by someone who wanted to ask you out.




Then yes, yes I would be. I'd be impressed that she got enough courage (even if she didn't need any) and said it.




You aren't getting the point! :P



You asked how to ask her out, and our advice is for you to think of scenarios which you think you would want to be asked out in. We're not saying if you think it's courageous to ask someone out, it damn sure is. So think of scenarios in your head that you would want to be asked out in, and then pick one and rehearse, but leave room for improv as well.

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I'm quite good at Improv, we even did a show on it, it was hilarious.



Yes Zonorhc, gunpoint would be hawt if she didn't think you were a mass-murderer.

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Basically Powman, we're trying to teach empathy to you, which by the way is a pretty key thing when it comes to relationships.



Now not every human is the same psychologically, of course. But the basic fundamentals still hold true and at the end of the day, we're 97% alike to each other (or some percentage like that, don't quote me on it. The point's made anyway).



You've got two options; either think of how you yourself would want to be approached, and gain confidence that way; or think about what she wants. Because at the end of the day, no one on this board can teach you how to ask a girl out. Sorry, life's just hard that way. Some lessons can't be taught. :wink:

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True. Thanks for the advice, I may just ask her. I prefer it with us alone, nobody around. That's just it.

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It kills me! (Not literally)


The Hell you say! :roll:



You should definetely wear a three-piece suit or tuxedo and hold a rose in your teeth when you do it. Get on one knee, remove the rose, toss it away (I'm sure she won't want a rose that's been in your mouth) and ask. Maybe have a guy playing the ukelele in the background.



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I still like my ex-girlfriend, and we have been broken up almost a year. I think she likes me too, and we often catch ourselves "over-flirting" if you will. I'm not positive she likes me, and now i don't know how exactly to ask her out, and i really fear rejection, lol. Oh yeah, i forgot one little detail. We have become best friends since, and if i ask and she says no, that may screw everything up. <.<




If you want my advise go for it, you will never know untill you ask her and you don't want to spend every minute your with her wondering because that just stinks major, don't fear rejection rejection happens to everyone it's a part of life. O:)




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