I broke it off with my partner for good.
He has too many issues and he refuses to talk about them with me.
I can't have conversations with him, because I do all the talking and he doesn't know what to say.
He can't tell me about his feelings, what's going on in his life, why he's upset, what's bothering him.
He runs away everytime it comes down to talking.
The other reason I'm leaving is because he wants to go back to the army. I can't stand being up to 2 years away from my partner, especially when I'm ready to have a family soon.
He has lied to me so many times and I've always turned a blind eye to it but I can't do it anymore.
4 years of trying to get him to open up and talk to me, even with a degree up your sleeve you can't make someone talk who doesn't want to talk.
I stayed by his side when he told me he couldn't have children and said we could adopt, stayed by his side even after the compulsive lying, picked up the broken pieces when he got thrown out the army.
I just can't be with someone who says they can't open up to me because everyone has hurt him and he doesn't know how (my stance, is get over it or one day you'll miss the best thing that's ever happened to you).
End of my rant... This is going to absolutely kill me, especially because I know this chick is coming down from Cairns to see him. He told her to piss off because he was with me but now I know they're going to see each other.....
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh this is going to be the most hurtful break up I've had so far.
I love him soooooooo much but after 4 years, we can't even talk to each other and it is really damaging our relationship. I can't marry someone and have kids to someone I can't talk to. When your kids move out and you're old and grey, conversation skills are going to be needed more than ever.
My heart feels like it's been stabbed
I know we both love each other more than anything but I can't be with someone who doesn't know how to communicate.
He makes me feel safe and I have faith in him and I'll always be there for him if he needs me in the future. I do love him with all my heart but I can't do it anymore, he's not my soul mate.