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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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How do I stop myself being the twisted bitter ex girlfriend?

 

Yes I ended the relationship, yes I don't regret ending it. I'm generally happy although sometimes I feel a sharp pain when I think about some of the shenanigans of the past two years.

 

However I find myself happy that he's being humiliated on social media (because that's the kind of girl he's picked for himself)

 

His new girlfriend is embarrassing him on Twitter, responding to claims about my ex being a "downgrade" from her past boyfriends, and yeah I'll be honest

and say I mentally think "Yes. [bleep] him" and that he deserves being humiliated like this. I'm not sure she realises responding to "criticism" on a public forum only opens the door to more criticism or more taunts. She's periodically mocked on Yik Yak and whatever else, but I just want to get moving on with my life to be honest.

 

My ex's sister messaged me last night saying she still loved me, and that the family still think I'm a "wonderful" person and that they're sad we're not together anymore.

They want me to come and visit - I'm really unsure if that would be too awkward, but it breaks my heart that I may never see their dog run up to me again. The sister asked if I'll be friends with her brother still. I was hopeful but it's looking incredibly unlikely day by day. We're more or less ignoring each other, I have absolutely no idea how it'll be in person.

 

Either way, I'm far too invested in the humiliation of my ex for my own liking. I'm not really sure how I'll move on if I'm still gloating every time he's humiliated publicly. 



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Out of sight, out of mind.

Drop the connections (un-friend on FB, remove their Family from FB, delete their twitter/insta e.t.c) and you will feel more wholesome in the long run. It is easy to revel in the downward spiral that can occur post break-up but for your personal sake it is better to just get on with your own life.

 

It's easier to be strangers than it is to be awkward-"platonic" friends. Albeit, going from lovers to strangers is, unfortunate to say the least. But you will stop being a "bitter-twisted" Ex quickly if you stopped caring.

 

SideNote: He rebounded fairly quickly, you weren't missing out on much.


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Out of sight, out of mind.

Drop the connections (un-friend on FB, remove their Family from FB, delete their twitter/insta e.t.c) and you will feel more wholesome in the long run. It is easy to revel in the downward spiral that can occur post break-up but for your personal sake it is better to just get on with your own life.

 

It's easier to be strangers than it is to be awkward-"platonic" friends. Albeit, going from lovers to strangers is, unfortunate to say the least. But you will stop being a "bitter-twisted" Ex quickly if you stopped caring.

 

SideNote: He rebounded fairly quickly, you weren't missing out on much.

 

Agreed completely. Cut them out of your life entirely - no matter how hard it may be.

 

Everybody deserves to be with somebody who wants to be with them. Unfortunately, that can change while in the relationship too. It's all trial and error and will hurt less each time.



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Who on earth are you?

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Did a lurker just post? Awesome!

Yeah your break up was shitty Maddy. End all contact(especially social media) and begin thinking of anyone associated to your ex as a stranger including him himself. You need to move on. And delete yik yak, that app is garbage.
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Wtf is yik yak?


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Wtf is yik yak?

Garbage. I use it occasionally mainly just to have a bit of fun with people and troll them a bit but otherwise. At-least where I (and Maddy live) it is full of "Roadmen" and Uni students complaining about where we live. It is frightfully dull as Rpg says.


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Wtf is yik yak?

Garbage. I use it occasionally mainly just to have a bit of fun with people and troll them a bit but otherwise. At-least where I (and Maddy live) it is full of "Roadmen" and Uni students complaining about where we live. It is frightfully dull as Rpg says.

 

 

@saq yik yak is a an anonymous local combination of twitter and reddit.you can only see posts within a couple miles of you, and its basically twitter except with upvotes and downvotes.

 

It's a lot better in a college town. pretty much all of the students here have it so sometimes it can be funny or be a good way to hear about things happening on campus, though there are a bunch of whiny desperate people on there too. When i visit home in the surburbs though it's utter garbage

 

Lol I lived in an apartment this year where another group of people lived underneath me and one time i played my electric drumkit in my living room and saw a passive aggressive yak about how somebody was annoyed that their upstairs neighbor got a drum set right in time for finals week posted around the time I was playing and it was probably the proudest yik-yak-related moment I've had.



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Hitting that point where when a girl tells me she's 18 as we are grinding in a club kinda scares me

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Is there a way to check their ID without seeming paranoid?


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"Hey, just want to make sure you have your id before we head to the club?"

Presuming you are going on a date and meeting up beforehand.

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In my experience when i was younger i disliked being seen as such but now i treat it as a compliment. So if she is of age she wont be offended and your not being unreasonable to ask

So to answer your question add a compliment to it or tell a story maybe about your buddy who met up w/ a girl from tinder and he found out shes in high school mid date, and that she looks rather young and you just want to make sure.

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Or just ask "how old are you?"

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Or just ask "how old are you?"

And have the cops show up one day because she lied and was actually 16?


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Or just ask "how old are you?"

And have the cops show up one day because she lied and was actually 16?


highly unlikely worst case scenario

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Yeah I don't care enough to ask. More was just meaning the difference in life experiences. I'm almost 22 and the difference between my 18 yo self and now is massive

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"What's your favorite bar?"

If she doesn't have an answer, she's too young for you.

Or if her answer sucks, you can stop talking to her.
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"I don't drink"

 

Noooope



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"I don't drink"

 

Noooope

That's a huge plus for me imho.


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