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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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Sounds like you aren't happy with your relationship. Either leave her or confront her about issues you have with it. 

 

Also, there's really nothing wrong with her choice of summer jobs. I'd take less pay over a job that would make me feel super uncomfortable every day.


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Her summer job choice isn't really much to guage anything on, so if you feel that strongly about it there's probably a larger unhappiness that's amplifying it.

(And waitresses probably make nearly 3 times as much as cashiers in America, but in tips, because hourly the wages would be 4:1 the other way around)

Saq I like that you want to drive her to do better, but I also want to make sure you're not pressuring her to drink all the time because that's not all that healthy for the relationship either.
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I disagree about the job. If she's passing up a good job because she's socially awkward, that's problematic.

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I am not pressuring her into anything. I have invited her to events and concerts and stuff where she can have something without parents keeping an eye on her. She's never gotten seriously drunk.

 

I have planned to confront her for about a week now, just waiting for the right time.


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I've started semi dating a girl that's a bigger partier than I am and that's weird. I've usually been a bigger partier than girls I've been with, but she and her friends are machines lol. She's also much more averse to texting than myself, which is interesting because that's been a problem in the past for me but the other way around.
It's weird being on this side of things, I much prefer the other side

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Like maybe I don't hang out with enough waitresses but $27/hour would be pretty ridiculous

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I don't know yet what to do. I am torn between 2 girls and one of them is completely innocent, mega-shy and silent girl. The other is the exact opposite.
I have never rejected a girl, but this town is too small for risking seeing 2 girls at the same time.

Saq, this is what you posted back in November. I'm assuming you had a reason you picked the shy innocent one over the other girl that had more in common with you. You have to decide if that reason is still good enough to keep dealing with these frustrations you're having.
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The other was the girl that committed suicide...


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Welp
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The other was the girl that committed suicide...


that's a good reason

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well, shit


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My condolences man

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I got whiskey dicked on Thursday night

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My condolences
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I got whiskey dicked on Thursday night


:( feel bad for the guy

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Tip.it, I am here once again to ask advice.

Prom is approaching (~3weeks out) and I finally decided to look for a date. Thankfully, so far as aware had based on good sources, my first choice is still free. So I messaged her a couple of days ago asking her if she wanted to go for lunch, she replied a long afterwards and relatively enthusiastically (reading tone in a message) yes and asked she . I replied and said today, however she never replied.

I sent the messages in messenger so I can see that she hasn't even opened the message since I sent it. Only message I sent after that was my phone number thinking it might speed things up.

My question really comes down to whether I should bother to try and get her as a date where she seems to not be interested or if I should just love on and try someone else?

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Ask her in person directly yes or no and that you need an answer on the spot. That will indicate if you need to continue your search. She doesn't sound interested, but there's too much grey area to say she's absolutely uninterested.
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It seems that only the Today thread or the Relationship thread can be thriving, never both...

So for the last couple of months I've had nothing but pictures of my cat on my Tinder profile, ended up with over 100 matches. While I got a lot more matches it felt a lot harder to actually engage any of them in conversation and meet up with them. It seems to be universally agreed that having a dog or cat in one of your pictures is a huge boost, I just wanted to see what happened if it was ALL cat pictures.
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Ok so... is it wrong to put my own feelings ahead of someone else's happiness?

 

An old friend of mine and I reconnected about 7 months ago, and we've gotten to be really good friends again after not speaking for about 5 years. We generally spent several hours a week talking and/or hanging out, like friends do I suppose. I've felt happier these past 7 months than I have in years having a good friend back in my life that I can share almost everything with without feeling judged etc. However, this past month or so I've began having very bi-polar feelings towards her. Some days I feel happy, other days I feel very angry, depressed, malevolent because of her. I couldn't take it anymore, so I basically cut off all contact with her. My mental state sort of went back to it's not really happy not really sad state. However, I found out that she's been very upset about the whole thing (rightfully so I suppose) and has been feeling depressed, angry, sad, and some days physically ill because I've stopped communicating with her.

 

What do I do? I feel like shit knowing that I'm hurting one of the few people I care about and I don't feel very happy (I feel quite sad a lot of the time actually). If I were to try to re-mend our friendship, her state would improve drastically, but mine would dip back down and go back to feeling violently angry several hours of the day again.

 

Do I stay the course or clear my conscience? 


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“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”

“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”

“Mmmhmm.”

 


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In the end you need to do what's best for you. You don't have to live with your friend 24/7 and need to look out for you whom you do live with 24/7. They should hopefully be able to find their own help it solution but in the end you need to ensure you are in a good mental state first.

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