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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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3 years ago? Probably close to he same. Any further than 5 and I had a very different take on things, and we had a lot more voices in here
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Yeah, figure it still stands although now that its been mentioned I'm going to say [bleep] it and post it anyway just in case along with the answers you guys gave back then.

 

Basically was just going to ask for signs to know if a girl is interested or not (phrased by 3 years ago me as "How to tell if a girl likes me") and the answers from back then are basically just stop being a [kitty] and just ask them out or whatever. Which makes sense and is probably the best action. Issue being, and again answered back then (by don't make it a problem until its a problem), that I'm about 9/10 oblivious and this girl fits into a small circle that for better or worse I'll be in for the next two years for school.

 

That being said I'm almost thinking it would be best to take a "don't shit where you eat" approach, but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.


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I tend to sneak in a few flirts from time to time to show I'm interested. Seems to work for me.


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3 years ago? Probably close to he same. Any further than 5 and I had a very different take on things, and we had a lot more voices in here

Yeah everyone here simultaneously grew up approximately 3 years ago



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Just for the heck of it, what was the question?
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Think I put it up in my last post but its semi hidden.

Was just going to ask how to tell if a girl likes you? Basically looking for obvious indicators of interest.

Again after reading the old responses I realise I'm just waiting for the voice of god to come down and tell me or something when I just need to ask.

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Think I put it up in my last post but its semi hidden.

Was just going to ask how to tell if a girl likes you? Basically looking for obvious indicators of interest.

Again after reading the old responses I realise I'm just waiting for the voice of god to come down and tell me or something when I just need to ask.

In the past, when I was a scrawny (albeit confident) guy, the only way for me to know was to make a move and see how she responded.

But after my recent bulk I can usually tell right off the bat if she’s into me or not, on a visceral level, just by the way she looks at me and acts around me. You’d know it too if you saw it; if you have to ask, then that means you need to make a move more often (because they rarely will)

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100% I can't really add anything but a 'you'll know it when you've experience it' comment

 

 

Edit: on a more day to day level, such as classmate,

 

think about the girl who conveniently ends up in your space. Maybe she sits near you. Asks for your number to get last weeks notes if she missed class. Etc. Shes into you on some level. You remove ambiguity by finding out where the boundaries are.



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yeah-- women tend to look for excuses just to get your attention if they're into you since they won't be upfront and direct about it (that's the man's job)


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Oh geez the ioi meta of dating - completely forgot about that stuff. I think before I was 20 I was pretty hopeless (i had had 1 GF briefly when I was 15/16 or something) and probably took muggi's advice to heart (no offence :D) but looking back over last 6 years I think I have been fairly successful (yay me) without worrying too much about iois.

Not gonna lie. The peeps that said "it'll happen" were right - the ioi stuff kinda applies if you can't gauge it ("if you have to think it was an ioi, it wasn't"?). Ask them out anyway Bonez tell them ya boy Boris will write a mean forum post about them. 
 

I have to confess when I met my current partner I did touch her elbow while giving her a compliment because I am a smooth dude :shades:  :shades:  :shades:  :shades:  :shades: . And yes I was thinking of Muggi...


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I'd like to think I was unsuccessful before I turned 20. My first long term relationship was around then.

 

I've had a few stable relationships (~1 year), but the majority of mine have been one night stands or just short flings.


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Oh geez the ioi meta of dating - completely forgot about that stuff. I think before I was 20 I was pretty hopeless (i had had 1 GF briefly when I was 15/16 or something) and probably took muggi's advice to heart (no offence :D) but looking back over last 6 years I think I have been fairly successful (yay me) without worrying too much about iois.

Not gonna lie. The peeps that said "it'll happen" were right - the ioi stuff kinda applies if you can't gauge it ("if you have to think it was an ioi, it wasn't"?). Ask them out anyway Bonez tell them ya boy Boris will write a mean forum post about them. 
 
I have to confess when I met my current partner I did touch her elbow while giving her a compliment because I am a smooth dude :shades:  :shades:  :shades:  :shades:  :shades: . And yes I was thinking of Muggi...


was the compliment about how sharp her elbows were?

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Oh geez the ioi meta of dating - completely forgot about that stuff. I think before I was 20 I was pretty hopeless (i had had 1 GF briefly when I was 15/16 or something) and probably took muggi's advice to heart (no offence :D) but looking back over last 6 years I think I have been fairly successful (yay me) without worrying too much about iois.

Not gonna lie. The peeps that said "it'll happen" were right - the ioi stuff kinda applies if you can't gauge it ("if you have to think it was an ioi, it wasn't"?). Ask them out anyway Bonez tell them ya boy Boris will write a mean forum post about them. 
 
I have to confess when I met my current partner I did touch her elbow while giving her a compliment because I am a smooth dude :shades:  :shades:  :shades:  :shades:  :shades: . And yes I was thinking of Muggi...


was the compliment about how sharp her elbows were?

 

 

It was a reassuring pat on the elbow that accompanied me telling her she looks younger than me (She is 8 years older than me). I know too much swag. (Took 9 months to actually start dating but we were both busy!)

 

Although she does have sharp elbows.


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Dayum gurl that funny bone redic


dayum gurl ain't nothing funny about your humerus

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no

 

we're done people


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“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”

“Mmmhmm.”

 


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no
 
we're done people


I guess you should get out of this thread's Radius

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I created a straight OkCupid profile and have gotten 3 likes / 2 matches / 1 response + 1 date scheduled since Sunday. However I've messaged/liked like 50 peeps so I'm not sure what that means. (Obviously a lot of them wouldn't have seen my profile, etc).

It's pretty much the same bio as last time except slimmed down and fine tuned. Same pictures. I used the nice picture of me in the grey tweed blazer as my first one (I think it's the best???).

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re: weightlifting, atlthough I'm not progressing as fast as muggi said, I'm up to 60 lbs bench press from just the barbell, 90 lbs dead lift & squat. Have only missed three or four days since I've started due to extenuating circumstances (like Monday, where I had work/school 17 hours straight; the following morning I wanted to die and just noped out of school/work).

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Weightlifting for results is a full time commitment. I've seen what "counting macros" in your diet can do on top of constant routine and it's pretty significant. The trade off it that you'll lose most sense of pleasure from food, which personally I don't think is worthwhile. Especially when routine exercise does the job, just at a slightly slower pace
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Yeah I'm not doing that. Food is life.

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