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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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You should probably unfollow her on social media if it twists you up this much just to be in the same country as her
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Ok pretext I'm slightly drunk, but I danced with a few girls and got a girl's number today. Unfortunately I think she's a lesbian and she thinks I'm gay.

Dancing was a bit awkward, I don't know how to dance with girls. I don't want to be too forward. But I saw some guys being /real/ forward so I'm confused. Going to try and get my friend 'Jane' to help me, but IDK if her boyfriend is ok with it. (I'll lie and say I'm gay, maybe that'll help? LOL just joking)

I'm going to text her Sunday evening / Monday asking how her weekend was, and if I don't get a response, I'll just remove her number like I do all the others.

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Okay so I ended up texting her last night asking how her day was. She responded sometime later that night (I was asleep RIP)! Haha.

I'm thinking of responding, then asking if she has plans for the week. Depending on what she says then, I'll ask if she wants to grab coffee or dinner. How does that sound?

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Okay so I ended up texting her last night asking how her day was. She responded sometime later that night (I was asleep RIP)! Haha.

I'm thinking of responding, then asking if she has plans for the week. Depending on what she says then, I'll ask if she wants to grab coffee or dinner. How does that sound?

Channel your inner Shia Labeouf and "Do it!"

Obligatory Muggi advice from a bit ago is keep that date no more than 2 days ahead if you can.

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Coffee > dinner
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Indeed, way more things to go wrong with dinner and it is harder to concentrate on communication.

I had an... interesting experience. An eye-opener in regards to what a single touch can be or do. It can communicate so much.
Always, always try to start touching at first chance. Don't rush it, don't make it awkward. But it is the key.
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We've been saying that for like 10 years haha glad you caught on
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yeah I was going to suggest coffee idk why I mentioned dinner in my post

I texted her back this morning but she hasn't responded (12 hours ish? later) so we'll see.

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We've been saying that for like 10 years haha glad you caught on


That experience of mine came through not that completely legal means...
Bloody hell, a girl proposed a time and date for a date recently and then unmatched... Probably by accident, I didn't manage to reply yet. Oh well, got 15 other matches I got last week to set em up with.
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We went out with drinks tonight with her friends. Had a good time. Danced, talked, and thumb wrestled (lol). She's in the military which helps explain her weird texting schedule (imo; reception on base is spotty & she won't be checking her phone depending on what she's doing, lease that's how it's been with the few military peeps I've dated). There was hugging and stuff so I think I followed the "touch is good" rule pretty well (especially with the thumb wresting LOL).

She doesn't like coffee so I'll ask her to dinner, or maybe drinks solo. I know a decent pub/...restaurant? that could do either/or.

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Unfortunately I think she's a lesbian and she thinks I'm gay.


i was right

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It’s good that you broke the touch barrier since many guys have a hard time doing that. Eventually you’ll have to graduate to more sexual touching though. Hugging and thumb wars is probably fine for introducing her to your touch and getting her comfortable with you, but that kind of touching isn’t sexual. You’ll eventually have to do things like rub her back, put your hand on her knee or thigh, run your fingers through her hair, etc.

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didn't you see she thought I was gay and she was a lesbian

also when guys do that shit to me I want them to go away so idgi

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Well if you come off as gay then you gotta be more direct with showing your physically attracted to her, probably before the number.  You can go super direct with "You look sexy as hell in that dress" or more low key depending on your personality and the venue.

 

 

Also what's setting off peoples gaydar? Do you have the accent or is it how you overall present yourself



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I wish I [bleep]ing knew

oh btw it's current year and homophobia and prejudice against bisexuals isn't a thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

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from some of my friends apparently it's my voice (big one), the way I dress, and my posture and a lot of "who knows"

 

wow so cool glad to know I present as a a [bleep]


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Yeah I get its frustrating.

 

Its pretty similar to something a lot of straight men experience with women saying they want a guy who will cry and be emotionally expressive and then when you look at who they date or sleep with its almost exclusively the opposite kind of guy. I think muggi popularized this here but watch what women do rather than say. 



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also when guys do that shit to me I want them to go away so idgi

I've seen a lot of first date advice that would ensure we never had a second. I guess early elimination is probably a success from the perspective of a guy looking to get laid.


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didn't you see she thought I was gay and she was a lesbian


Yes-- if she thought you wanted to sleep with her, don't you think she'd be less likely to think you're gay?

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