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My friend is back on OKC now :)

 

I warned him that online dating's a dead zone from now until late August though, and that he should spend this time making sure he's got good profile pictures while hitting the gym hard and doing other productive things so he can hit the ground running and be on his A-game when online dating starts picking up again. Hopefully he sticks with it. I think he's still reluctant to put in the numbers and treat it as systematically as I do... which will severely hinder his results. It took me 200 openers before I got my first online date, after all :P


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We talked about it and things went better than expected.

 

She said she was still interested in me, and that we hadn't texted for a few days because she was busy doing things and she was sick. We're back to talking again and we just accepted that this was just a road bump in the relationship and things will get better as time goes on and we get to know each other more and more.

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Too sick to let her boyfriend know she was sick...?

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Too sick to let her boyfriend know she was sick...?

 

If he had that kind of attitude he'd probably be angry and single now.


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Too sick to let her boyfriend know she was sick...?

If he had that kind of attitude he'd probably be angry and single now.

Or single and meeting more women.

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Or both.


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Angrily meeting women while single is one of my favorite pastimes. 

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Guess I just have different expectations of the women I'm with on an intimate level. A few days go by and I get no heads up of what's going on? Then yeah, they're not gonna be in my life any longer.

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Too sick to let her boyfriend know she was sick...?

 

If he had that kind of attitude he'd probably be angry and single now.

 

IDK, seems to me that going into a talk thinking that any explanation will do and that a breakup is to be avoided at all costs is a bad attitude to have.
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We talked about it and things went better than expected.

 

She said she was still interested in me, and that we hadn't texted for a few days because she was busy doing things and she was sick. We're back to talking again and we just accepted that this was just a road bump in the relationship and things will get better as time goes on and we get to know each other more and more.

nice to hear, but unless she makes an effort to change her attitude, the relationship is ending whether you/her want to admit it or not.

 

not trying to be a dick. but it's really easy to keep going on and on like this, making excuses, when the reality isn't changing. just be aware that nice words need to be followed up by firm actions.

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Too sick to let her boyfriend know she was sick...?

 

If he had that kind of attitude he'd probably be angry and single now.

 

IDK, seems to me that going into a talk thinking that any explanation will do and that a breakup is to be avoided at all costs is a bad attitude to have.

 

 

I'm not saying what is or isn't a good attitude. I'm saying that attitude would likely result in him being single and if he wants to keep the relationship going that's a bad attitude to have.

 


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In this case, keeping the relationship alive isn't necessarily a good thing :P

 

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you're successful. Being in a relationship where you are consistently happy means you're successful.


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@muggi

 

What's your policy (for lack of a better word) on attending family events? I got my dumb ass invited to a girl's brother's wedding. I'd like to go just for the fun time and alcohol aspect but I don't want to send the wrong message to the girl. Girl is aware exclusivity isn't an option right now, but to make matters a little complicated, her brother is a decent friend of mine.. Girl and I have been FB's basically since summer began, she's from my hometown and we go different schools so I'm hoping that also helps her understand this isn't going anywhere after August.

Amicably parted ways last night. Was a good two months of fun though, no ragrets.

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I broke up with that girl.
 
It was the right thing to do but I'm pretty [bleep]ed up over it. I haven't eaten since.

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I broke up with that girl.

 

It was the right thing to do but I'm pretty [bleep]ed up over it. I haven't eaten since.

 

If you were very close with her you need to hang out with your friends more to fill that void. You should do activities you enjoy with people you enjoy and you will feel better and might meet someone new too.

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I broke up with that girl.

 

It was the right thing to do but I'm pretty [bleep]ed up over it. I haven't eaten since.

 

You should learn how to date before you get into another monogamous relationship. Your feelings would be more understandable if you'd dated her for 4 years instead of 4 months. But getting this upset over such a short-term relationship isn't healthy. You'll be a lot happier and more in control of your relationship-life when you know that if things go south, it's not the end of the world because you can easily replace her.


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Well he probably had her as a girlfriend and best friend. Which is endearing but scary if shit goes south. At the end of the day you should work on separating the two and not putting all your eggs in one basket, no matter how great it makes that basket.

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I broke up with that girl.

 

It was the right thing to do but I'm pretty [bleep]ed up over it. I haven't eaten since.

how did she take it? Did she basically say what we'd suspected, that she wasn't into it anymore?

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I broke up with that girl. It was the right thing to do but I'm pretty [bleep]ed up over it. I haven't eaten since.

how did she take it? Did she basically say what we'd suspected, that she wasn't into it anymore?

I drove her home. I said, "I think we're done together," and she just said, "Really? Alright..." and then she got out of the car.

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I broke up with that girl. It was the right thing to do but I'm pretty [bleep]ed up over it. I haven't eaten since.

how did she take it? Did she basically say what we'd suspected, that she wasn't into it anymore?

 

I drove her home. I said, "I think we're done together," and she just said, "Really? Alright..." and then she got out of the car.

 

yeah...well i think that clearly indicates that she wasn't into it. Sucks man, but you did the right thing, for both of you


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My least favorite part about ending things is when you have to listen to the "I thought you were different" speech. Or the "what did I do wrong" during a sobfest.

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Sounds like she didn't give many ducks. You'll be alright Maze. You can do Better for yourself


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Had a mini version of "the talk" with my newest girl tonight. Predictably she asked me "what are we?" exactly at the 3 month mark.

 

Told her we're both open to see other people. She's cool with it. Success.

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