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Most of them do since they're very gender-fluid. (Christ I hate that word)

 

Personality-wise I'm quite a submissive guy so I'm a sucker for some guys who can be both a bit cocky but charming it's a turn on. Over-cocky and/or "I'm big in the gay community, show me respect" kind of people though should go sit on a rusty pole since they're the reason some people, including myself, are embarrassed to be gay.


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Tim you're primarily attracted to physical appearance right? All of my gay male friends pretty much think the same way I do, except for men instead of women


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Anyone here had success with leaving a note on a girl's car? (Like a girl that doesn't know you're into her, not a girl you've been dating for awhile)

 

I can't seem to get isolated with that girl from work and after tomorrow I won't see her for about 3 weeks. I'm torn as to either wait, leave the note, or message her on Facebook (we're friends already)

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I like the idea of a note. Reminds me of high school locker note drops. Just don't make it weird. And know which car is hers.


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I'm struggling with the intro. The middle and ending I've got a pretty idea with, not sure what I want the first line to be as I feel like that sets the tone

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If you aren't gonna see her for 3 weeks, why not just wait? It's not like you'll be able to date/bang her within the next 24 hours (right?)


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3 weeks is like an eternity in hot girl time (but hey, likewise can be said that waiting for the right time is better than jumping the gun). I think it takes a lot of introspection and a good grasp on who you are to know when the "timing is right". In my opinion, there's no time like the present.

 

Care to share your rough draft?


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Rough outline of possible note:

 

Girl's name,

 

Brief explanation as to why we won't see each other for a few weeks

 

State my interest in wanting to get to know her better, ask if she'd want to get coffee or a drink sometime

 

My phone number

My name..

 

 

 

Thoughts?

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And this girl *actually* knows you? If she doesn't, a note like that is kind of creepy, ngl.


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“I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”

“Do you have any regrets?”

“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”

“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”

“Mmmhmm.”

 

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thinking of just throwing tinder under the bus and trying out okcupid for a while instead because [bleep]. Muggi do you still have any success with that or did tinder kill it more or less?

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And this girl *actually* knows you? If she doesn't, a note like that is kind of creepy, ngl.

Does she "actually" know me? Lol

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I would wait 3 weeks and meet other people in the mean time

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I would personally scrap the note idea and talk to her in person.


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thinking of just throwing tinder under the bus and trying out okcupid for a while instead because [bleep]. Muggi do you still have any success with that or did tinder kill it more or less?

What was the problem with tinder you found?

 

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I should have reset my tinder profile when i returned to London. At the bottom of the [bleep]ing pile. In contest with 500,000+ other users (males). Probably easier to not use OKCupid.  Seeing as one can swipe 100 or so girls a day now. Might just set my search to 25 miles (other end) and swipe the first 10 or so cards before reducing the radius to see if that will change anything. Either that or I will just reset my tinder :|.


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And this girl *actually* knows you? If she doesn't, a note like that is kind of creepy, ngl.

Does she "actually" know me? Lol

 

 

It was a serious question....


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“I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”

“Do you have any regrets?”

“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”

“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”

“Mmmhmm.”

 

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Definitely make sure you establish who you are in her life and youre not just some weirdo she worked with once but I dont think what you said is bad so far

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How would you like for me to quantify whether or not she "actually" knows me?

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thinking of just throwing tinder under the bus and trying out okcupid for a while instead because [bleep]. Muggi do you still have any success with that or did tinder kill it more or less?

The dating sites are still great but it's the summer time so getting dates is harder than normal atm. August thru october will be the best months


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In terms of k. But mostly we just want to be sure that you've at least talked to her before and she knows your name and things like that


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Well yes, lol. We've made small talk a few times, have a few of the same friends, etc. Like for example she'd know my major, year in school, hometown, etc

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Well looks like she knows you. I dunno why you found it a hard question. Basically if someone went up to her and said "what do you know about Low Levelled" what would she say?

 

A) Who the heck is that?

B) Nothing really. Just a guy I work with.

C) Oh, yeah, Low Levelled, (short list of things she knows about you)

D) Lots of things, what did you want to know?

 

If the answer is in A or B territory, she doesn't know you. If it's C or D then she does know you.

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thinking of just throwing tinder under the bus and trying out okcupid for a while instead because [bleep]. Muggi do you still have any success with that or did tinder kill it more or less?

What was the problem with tinder you found?

 

Edit:

I should have reset my tinder profile when i returned to London. At the bottom of the [bleep]ing pile. In contest with 500,000+ other users (males). Probably easier to not use OKCupid.  Seeing as one can swipe 100 or so girls a day now. Might just set my search to 25 miles (other end) and swipe the first 10 or so cards before reducing the radius to see if that will change anything. Either that or I will just reset my tinder :|.

 

 

 

Just getting annoyed with how many flakes I get and I don't really feel confident going for first-meet-lays like everyone is encouraging with it when I still haven't gotten farther than making out with a girl, and even that hasn't happened for me sober. I just feel like the slightly slower pace allowed by how muggi talks about okcupid might be easier to start out with when i"m this inexperienced. And idk like I've gone on about 7 dates off of it over the last year and I've still never seen any of those girls a second time, just want to try something new I guess idk.

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Okcupid is a much lower pressure connotation yes


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