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Im not in that big of a hurry, but either way it takes longer than 12 hours typically 

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.... congrats?


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Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic.

Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos.

 

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Why'd you break up?


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Three months banishment to 9gag is something i would never wish upon anybody, not even my worst enemy.

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I broke up because I was losing attraction and because we have very different long term plans. I dunno I feel bad but there would've been more issues later if I didn't end it if Im feeling this way.

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How long did you date? I don't remember you mentioning her much

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Over a year and I didn't have any questions to ask about my relationship

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Girl I'm talking to is so incredibly different over text as opposed to in person. It's puzzling. In person she's always psyched and over text she's boring AF. Like to the point it's a chore just to text and organize a meet

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I think most people have a different way of communicating when it comes to text vs in person. Maybe they just really hate texting? Try calling them instead of texting them when you want to set up dates or w/e.

 

I mean, I know that my texting vocabulary and demeanor is extremely different than it is in person.

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“I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”

“Do you have any regrets?”

“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”

“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”

“Mmmhmm.”

 

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I'm not a huge texter myself in comparison to my generation, but she's real bad. I find it kind of cool haha

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Im a terrible texter myself. But personally I do as little conversation over text as possible because most context gets missed

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A large part of texting and phone conversations that is really unhealthy is the fact that you can't read someone's body language. You can't tell if someone is really bored or upset about the topic unless they explicitly tell you so. I know I've had some really angry text conversations before where both parties took things too far since they didn't really know when to stop due to a lack of in person communication. 


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“I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”

“Do you have any regrets?”

“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”

“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”

“Mmmhmm.”

 

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[bleep] texting. You date the person not their texts


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[bleep] texting. You date the person not their texts

Texting is a part of communication. All you need to do is learn the other person's style of texting and if something is unclear, you ask them. It's pretty basic. 


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[bleep] texting.

 

I have to rely on it, but you can never get any good out of it, except setting up meetings.

Can only mess up stuff.


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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[bleep] texting. You date the person not their texts

Texting is a part of communication. All you need to do is learn the other person's style of texting and if something is unclear, you ask them. It's pretty basic. 

 

This is pretty true. If you know a person for long enough, texting almost becomes as natural as a face-to-face conversation. "Natural" really isn't the right word but you'll have an idea of her mood/tone just by what she says. Me and my ex, for example. I knew that she only said certain things when she was unhappy. Or what she would say when she was pretending to be excited about something. Or whatever. Yeah, body language is a big part of communication. But i think the longer you know someone, the less important it gets with certain matters. 

 

With that said, i'm not a big fan of texting either. Especially not in the beginning phases of a relationship. I find it a tedious chore, and i'd rather prefer to avoid making it a habit.

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[bleep] texting. You date the person not their texts

Texting is a part of communication. All you need to do is learn the other person's style of texting and if something is unclear, you ask them. It's pretty basic.

Iirc you're in a long distance relationship?

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Am I the only one who actually uses his phone for calling people up sometimes?


Luck be a Lady

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[bleep] texting. You date the person not their texts

Texting is a part of communication. All you need to do is learn the other person's style of texting and if something is unclear, you ask them. It's pretty basic.

Iirc you're in a long distance relationship?

 

That's correct. 


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Three months banishment to 9gag is something i would never wish upon anybody, not even my worst enemy.

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I made a tinder and I don't know if I'm just being picky but I am swiping left on like 70% of the profiles

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Not a good time of year. Prime tinder season is Sept-november and then again april-june

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Not a good time of year. Prime tinder season is Sept-november and then again april-june

Yeah. That's also true for OKC/POF/Match.


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I'm on OKC too. Got my first OKC fail too.

 

So after sifting through what seemed like hundreds of Ursula's I found a few pretty hot girls. One of which we will call Sue, who was hot nearby and DTF and mutual liked each others profiles. She also had a profile pic with a drawer that was annoyingly slightly open in the background. So I talked to her a bit and when I brought up the drawer the conversation stopped.

 

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I'm on OKC too. Got my first OKC fail too.

 

So after sifting through what seemed like hundreds of Ursula's I found a few pretty hot girls. One of which we will call Sue, who was hot nearby and DTF and mutual liked each others profiles. She also had a profile pic with a drawer that was annoyingly slightly open in the background. So I talked to her a bit and when I brought up the drawer the conversation stopped.

 

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You found out about the drawer where she keeps the heads. Good job.

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Keep it simple stupid

 

Who wants to talk about their living upkeep when they're trying to get it in?

 

Also, speaking from personal experience: the really hot okc girls that are dtf definitely have slept with a number of other guys from okc. Take that as you will


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Origin: Brand_New_iPwn

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Anyone remember Horatio (was it Abc1230?)? Wonder how he's doing.

 

btw does anyone know how to punctuate first sentence correctly?


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