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WHOA HEY THERE

 

I'm kinda terrified to look back at my old posts here honestly lol

 

work is so bleh and it's getting cold here BUT I'm going to LA on friday for Camp Flog Gnaw and it's gonna be 80 degrees and sunny and I honestly can't comprehend that right now but it's gonna be WILD

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Granted, provided you'll also be my gf

Granted, but you get dumped straight after...

 

Oops, wrong forum.

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"Fight for what you believe in, and believe in what you're fighting for." Can games be art?

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I don't know if you guys remember the girl i mentioned a few weeks ago. So long story... We started talking about 2 months ago or something. Maybe a bit longer than that, i really don't even remember anymore. After a few days of us talking i found out she had a boyfriend. We still continued talking, but it was mostly just friendly conversation here and there. One day i get a message from her boyfriend on IG saying something along the lines of "If you send [insert her name] one more creepy message, we're going to have problems. I'll come down there and settle it another way if you have a hard time understanding words. As if you have a chance anyway." (1. she lives right above me, 2. he obviously wanted to fight me). I just found it kind of humorous cause i don't think he realised how much older i am than him. But, not wanting to deal with the highschool drama, i stopped talking to her. About 3 weeks after that she randomly sent me a message one afternoon. We talked a bit, i told her i was actually surprised to hear from her, she explained to me that she dumped her boyfriend because he was being a douche and basically sending the same message he sent to me, to every other guy she was talking to (this included friends she knew from highschool, and people in her class she had to talk to for projects and such). 

 

Anyway, so i think she might be into me. We've hung out a few times over the last week. This afternoon she came over. We hung out a bit. Watched The Office a bit. I finally found my balls and decided to kiss her. Not even gonna lie, but the fact that she's 8 years younger than me never really even crossed my mind. I don't know if that makes me a perve or if that makes me normal, but she's hella cute and hella fun to hang out with. It's probably a generational thing, but apparently "guys don't talk to her the way i talk to her anymore". I don't think i've ever been called romantic, but apparently she thinks i'm very romantic.

 

I don't know... after the shitty month i've had and how stressful things have been it's kinda nice that things are going my way with this. 

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I like to think of the Relationship thread as kinda the diary for my older thoughts and feelings. Mistakes to be learnt from.

 

Also, 8 years is not that much, as long as you're both legal.

And it kinda is a generational thing, it is surprising how much the younger menfolk rely on memes and dickpics to let smash. And I've never heard of it working.

 

It's been a weird as autumn. Had some snow 2 weeks ago, but long gone and now it's been over a week of about +10 and misty rain pretty much non-stop. Also, feels weird being and living at my parents' house. Just don't feel like I'm at home here now, after having lived away for 5 years. Yet due to my mum's situation I am not moving out until she dies (which most probably isn't too far off)...

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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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And it kinda is a generational thing, it is surprising how much the younger menfolk rely on memes and dickpics to let smash.

dick pics work if ur gay

 

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My friend's boyfiend used my preferred pronouns and it was so cool. I also wore a dress to work / school today. It was so adorable. :D Apparently someone talked shit behind my back but really idc. Bigots be bigots.

 

This is the dress I got: https://www.nyandcompany.com/7th-avenue-navy-plaid-sheath-dress/A-prod15050001/

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You live in NC, I'd be more surprised if you didn't get any weird looks/comments from the peanut gallery

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My friend's boyfiend used my preferred pronouns and it was so cool. I also wore a dress to work / school today. It was so adorable. :D Apparently someone talked shit behind my back but really idc. Bigots be bigots.

 

This is the dress I got: https://www.nyandcompany.com/7th-avenue-navy-plaid-sheath-dress/A-prod15050001/

 

I think its just a bit of cognitive dissonance, but even though I (consciously) don't care about you wearing a dress my mind can't make the picture happen due to previous pictures I've seen of you and my expected societal norms.

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You live in NC, I'd be more surprised if you didn't get any weird looks/comments from the peanut gallery

I've only had one comment directed at me (someone said 'nice kilt' and laughed). There's actually quite a few people who've been supportive (random and people I know).

 

 

My friend's boyfiend used my preferred pronouns and it was so cool. I also wore a dress to work / school today. It was so adorable. :D Apparently someone talked shit behind my back but really idc. Bigots be bigots.

 

This is the dress I got: https://www.nyandcompany.com/7th-avenue-navy-plaid-sheath-dress/A-prod15050001/

I think its just a bit of cognitive dissonance, but even though I (consciously) don't care about you wearing a dress my mind can't make the picture happen due to previous pictures I've seen of you and my expected societal norms.

 

I got you covered fam.

 

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Unrelated, are these good gameplay images of my game?

 

http://aaronbolyard.com/games/19/itsyrealm

 

 

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Yendor, Slain Angel. After you defeat the Big Bad of the tutorial, she'll drop a creepy iron key that leads into a locked room in the dungeon. If you jump down the well, you'll enter the chambers of Yendor. The boss start jingle will play and a health bar with 4000 health will pop up... then it will drop to zero. Because Yendor is dead.

 

He's an eldritch god (like Guthix, except evil and inhuman). There's going to be Bastiel, The Ascended Arbiter (like Saradomin) and Gammon, The Realm Breaker (like Zamorak). The Empty King is going to be a human who ascended to godhood by slaying Yendor, becoming an Eldritch god themselves. But they'll represent fate and power, like Zaros.

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I've dated a lot of younger girls and the generational gap was obvious (difference of 3 years or so). Although, I've never dated anyone older... anyone with experiences with that?

My current partner is 8 years older than me. There are a few generational differences. I frequently get chastised for not knowing certain films or knowing particular music but casually watching films isn't one of my interests as I'd rather read or play a video game to pass the time.

 

I wouldn't say there isn't much of a generational gap and she seems more in tune with the times than I am.

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I've dated a lot of younger girls and the generational gap was obvious (difference of 3 years or so). Although, I've never dated anyone older... anyone with experiences with that?

My current partner is 8 years older than me. There are a few generational differences. I frequently get chastised for not knowing certain films or knowing particular music but casually watching films isn't one of my interests as I'd rather read or play a video game to pass the time.

 

I wouldn't say there isn't much of a generational gap and she seems more in tune with the times than I am.

 

 

 

I've dated a girl 4 years younger and at another time 4 years older.

 

Maybe its just because it was 4 years either way but we were in the same life stage (university students) so it wasn't weird

 

I dated a girl who was 4 years younger once too. I guess since I was 24 and she was 20 there was a difference of maturity. She did end up cheating on me. Maybe I shouldn't blame the age gap though; she did have a lot of problems herself.

 

I'm cancelling my lafitness gym membership because I have access to a cheaper gym option because of my job.

 

In order to cancel I need to go on the website, sign in, and print out a form and mail it. On the site it has a list of all the visits I've done since december last year. I've gone 121 times since dec 13th 2017. Not a perfect track record but I'm glad I stayed constant. 

 

I had access to a gym at my summer job. Now that I have access to a gym at my new university, I haven't even tried it out yet. It's been bad. Four whole months and I haven't been. I need to start getting into it. 

 

Anyone have any generic advice for getting back into it after a while?

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I know today and tomorrow may be tough since I'm working/helping out with Remembrance Day ceremonies tomorrow (I'm also currently posting this from work). I guess Monday is a good starting point.

 

What's funny is that I've always had an issue with eating and gaining weight. I'm at a "healthy" weight according to BMI, but my body shape is rather thin. Like I said on the other thread, struggling with a lot of things that involve lifting is kind of embarassing but it can also affect patient care.

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I know today and tomorrow may be tough since I'm working/helping out with Remembrance Day ceremonies tomorrow (I'm also currently posting this from work). I guess Monday is a good starting point.

 

What's funny is that I've always had an issue with eating and gaining weight. I'm at a "healthy" weight according to BMI, but my body shape is rather thin. Like I said on the other thread, struggling with a lot of things that involve lifting is kind of embarassing but it can also affect patient care.

muggi's advice to me should be the same: https://forum.tip.it/topic/192134-i-want-a-girlfriendboyfriend-and-other-such-relationship-advice/page-975?do=findComment&comment=5602758

 

In any case I've been going since ... 26 september? So a month later I went to 90 lb squat, 110 lb deadlift, and 60 lb bench press from ~40 lb, ~70 lb, and just barbell (so 20 lb). Next time I go (Monday) I'm going to try and go up 10 lbs since it felt easy today. I can easily move the barbell with one hand, now, too.

 

I go 3x a week. Not always M/T/F, but always 3x a week unless it's like impossible or would interfere with more important things. (For example, last week, I went on a hook-up Friday evening + had work during the day; and Monday I had a 17 hour work/school day). I still managed 2x in that week.

 

For context, I work two jobs, do freelance work, am making my own game, am going to school full time, and have a social life.

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Some days I do great, some days I do terrible.

 

I went to a pub with a bunch of coworkers. I tried approaching girls but chickened out. I had probably six shots in 2 hours and felt nothing. (I can stand balanced on one leg. The world isn't wobbly. I'm still freezing.) I approached one girl and the conversation ended quickly.

 

I hate myself but I hate where I live more.

 

I hate myself because I'm not masculine enough nor am I feminine enough (i.e., I'm an unattractive shit stain) and I hate the Fayetteville because [bleep] the military industrial complex, [bleep] patriotism, and [bleep] contractors/corporations that make private money by dealing death.

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I hate myself because I'm not masculine enough nor am I feminine enough (i.e., I'm an unattractive shit stain)

 

Those two traits seem mutually exclusive... hard for me to empathize since I can't think of any situation where I'd want to be more feminine. But seems like if I were bisexual, within the context of dating, I'd want to behave as femininely around men as possible and as masculinely around women as possible. But your body sort of forces you to choose one or the other. If you end up getting muscular, you're going to be perceived as masculine by default, and vice versa if you don't remain consistent in the gym.

 

You've probably already done this, but if I were in your shoes I'd be searching the internet/forums for bisexual men who have what you want in terms of dating success with both men and women; and then see if you can copy what they did to emulate their success

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I'ma be honest Veiva, you sound drunk lol

[bleep] off I wasn't.

 

I had to go to CMH Crisis Center today because I was so depressed but "lol i must be drunk"

 

@muggi

 

It's evident I'm unattractive or have other qualities that make me worthless so dating is pointless.

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