Using familiars at sub 60 levels is kinda pointless so stick to normal combat and just pick up charms. Picking up charms and creating pouches are how you gain xp and using the familiars is just the benefit to training. Kinda like how burying bones on an altar trains prayer but using actual prayers does not level you up. At your levels combat should be fine without summonings help, and most high level players only bring familiars to high level bosses (except bunyip which is great for slayer).
The main familiars under level 95 don't do a lot of damage at all and instead are useful for storing items or healing. EOC made most familiars damage obsolete and jagex seems to not want to rebalance the stuff they threw off back in 2012.
List of useful summons:
Terrorbird (52): holds 12 items and scrolls recharge run
War tortoise (67): holds 18 items
Bunyip (68): Slowly heals you over time
Fruit Bat (69): scrolls drop food to heal you
Titans (79): decent damage and scrolls heal you
Nihil (87): I have no idea what they do but since they are new im assuming theyre useful
Univorn (88): Scrolls heal a ton
Yak (96): holds 30 items
Steel titan (99): scrolls do a ton of dmg
Stick to picking up charms as you do combat and your summoning will rise quickly
Yeah, you're right that I don't need familiars to help me fight monsters.
I can easily fight 100 steel dragons in a row without problem.
What I love about the pouches is the fact that they have a good high alchemy value, so I can just high alch all the pouches that I don't need.
Again, thanks everyone for the help, and I really mean it thanks a lot.