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ok ive been goin out with my girl friend for about 7 months(a little longer) but weve been goin out since 6th grade(alot of breaks also curently goin into 9th) and this year her parents decided they dont want me to ever talk to her or be friends with her(one of my bestfriends is a good friend of hers so tahts the only way i can see her) and well me n her have fought alot becuase stupid old me cheated on her when i was drunk and im not sure if i should put up with all the fightint so umm yeah advice?

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What Im not understand is why she got back together with you after you cheated on her. I know that if I was with a girl who cheated on me, I certainly wouldn't get back together with her,.. But thats just me.

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I'd say instead of worrying about pointless relationship problems (you're only a freshman in HIGH school) you'd want to worry about the fact that you're a freshman in HIGH school and DRINKING.

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Your relationship is a farce.

 

 

 

If she's dumb enough to still go out with you after that stunt, she certainly isn't worth dating in my books. On that note, if you're dumb enough to drink irresponsibly at that age, I sure as hell wouldn't fancy your chances of landing with anyone worthwhile anytime soon.

 

 

 

Worry about your education, because it'll be worth more to you than anything you could possibly think to derive from that sort of relationship.

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To be honest I'll never feel sorry for anyone who gets drunk enough to treat on the girl they love at fourteen...

 

 

 

My advice; Try and stop drinking ( \' ), find yourself another girlfriend. What her parents said is completely reasonable; if I had a daughter, or a sister or whatever(which I don't), I wouldn't want her going out with you. Especially when you're drunk.

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Being drunk is no excuse, and especially at your age... How about you worry more about your education rather than impressing your peers with your drinking and messing with girls.

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Nothing to do with me of course but maybe the creator should get this locked. I can easily see it resulting in flaming.... :shame:

 

 

 

I never said I wasn't a hypocrite...

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Drunk at 14? 15?=BAAAAAD :shame:

 

 

 

 

 

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ok i kno i need to stop drinkin... that points been put across and of me n freidns r done from that aspect and her parents dont kno i drinkthats not hte reason they hate me they hate me cuase im 50% mexican and there racist(well her parents) so most of u r sayin forget about her and move on?

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If you're bringing her parent's racial views into it we can't help you. We don't know anything about either side.

 

What most of us are saying is sort yourself out first before you try a relationship. What I added is that she's probably forget about you anyway.

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ok i kno i need to stop drinkin... that points been put across and of me n freidns r done from that aspect and her parents dont kno i drinkthats not hte reason they hate me they hate me cuase im 50% mexican and there racist(well her parents) so most of u r sayin forget about her and move on?

 

Do you have any evidence to support your assumption that they hate you on the basis of your race?

 

 

 

Whatever the case, most of us are telling you to forget about girls and focus on your studies. Dump her because she's dumb enough to stay with you after you cheated on her, then smack yourself upside the head for forcing the situation to come to that.

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ok i kno i need to stop drinkin... that points been put across and of me n freidns r done from that aspect and her parents dont kno i drinkthats not hte reason they hate me they hate me cuase im 50% mexican and there racist(well her parents) so most of u r sayin forget about her and move on?

 

Do you have any evidence to support your assumption that they hate you on the basis of your race?

 

If they decided this year that they didn't want you seeing her like you said, then it isn't on basis of race.

 

Also, ditto on what everyone else is saying. A relationship from 6th grade that has lasted 7 months out of 36 or so isn't really worth it. At 6th grade, you really are not mature enough for a real serious relationship.

 

 

 

Also, in 9th grade, you really don't need to be out getting drunk enough to cheat on a girlfriend. I'm not going to say to stop drinking because it wouldn't matter since I'm not a friend or anything, but CUT IT DOWN TO A SOCIAL AMOUNT. A cup or 2 or low proof every once in a while.

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no no this part of the relation ship has lasted 7 months the longest me n have been apart is 2 weeks and yes i have proof her dad said strait to my face"i hate supid spics i dont want u to ever talk to my daughter agian" and im just done with alchool for awhile... cuz like 8 of my firends got cuaght so yeah

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