Psycho_Robot

all her bad relationships are screwing her up. But your lack of being in a relationship in no way makes future relationships more difficult

Just know that if you divorce me, the string you get will be so short you can't play with it. What is wrong with this girl? Why can't she get into a normal damn relationship? And how does a girl who is clingy and devoted to the point of obsession get with someone who only wants sex?

Wow. That's rough. No wonder she's clinging to this one... i suppose it was only a matter of time before she clinged to someone who actually wanted to be clung to.

Well, that's not something that's "ok" exactly, but its not as worrisome as her being in a failing relationship and being head over heels in denial.

since you agree with me.. you shall marry me <_< Aren't I married to y_guy? Well... I'm open to bigamy. he beats you. so break up with him. Ok. He is dumped. I took half his shit... -holds up half a bit of twine- I dunno. I can't really relate to someone defending such a toxic relationship on the basis of just being reluctant to admit to trouble. I mean, she has to be getting something out of it, right?

since you agree with me.. you shall marry me <_< Aren't I married to y_guy? Well... I'm open to bigamy.

I can respect Cyndi's desire to spend lots of time with her boyfriend. I can even respect her desire to spend more time with her boyfriend than her other friends. But that's where my respect for her decisions end. From what you've told us, Cyndi is still interested in being your friend, and still wants to spend time with you, but her boyfriend is stopping her. At this point in her life, she respects her boyfriend's decisions so much that she stops acting on her own free will. That's certainly not a good way to do things. She allowing her boyfriend to abuse her devotion to supplant her desires with his own. But that's not to say she doesn't care about you anymore. She's just confused and overcome with emotions that are new and strange to her. She sees her boyfriend as the endgame for her life, when in reality, he probably won't even be in her life in a decade, or even as little as a few years from now. They're both too young and inexperienced with relationships to be able to predict where this relationship will end. They also lack the maturity to keep the relationship healthy; its already become toxic, and is unlikely to get any better. She's not gone, she's lost. I don't hold any resentment towards the boyfriend. He is incidental. If Cyndi were more mature, or more open to criticisms of her action, she would not be in this situation, regardless of her boyfriend's wishes. The fact that she so easily caved to her boyfriend's unreasonable demands is more of an indictment of her than her boyfriend. Were Cyndi behaving maturely, she would have ignored his requests and, if need be, terminated the relationship when it became clear that he was not mature enough to be in one. So no, don't be mad at the boyfriend, although I don't see anyone really saying anything about him, so that's good. It'd be a shame if the frustration and disappointment was misdirected, because if it were, and no one faulted Cyndi, then when the boyfriend went away, Cyndi would just repeat this with another boyfriend, or something else.

I agree with most of what silva said, but I don't know that its reasonable to say that cyndi doesn't love emily. It sure seems that way given how she's been acting, however, we don't really have the full picture of what's going on. However we can surely agree what she's doing is unacceptable and she should stop right away!

you have my sympathy, for what its worth. I hope things are going better with Jessie?

I've been having some issues with my room mate. He's been my best friend for nearly 3 years now, but I've always had the nagging feeling that I wasn't as important to him as he was to me. That feeling has been getting worse in recent weeks. However I'd never treat him the way that cyndi has been treating you. If someone is truly your friend and you truly care for them, you could never stay mad at them, or say the types of things that Cyndi has been saying to you. The good times you've shared outweigh any type of spat you could ever have. That's why I can't believe Cyndi is really treating you like this. And its why I think that she'll come around soon.

Jesus, did she really say that?

honestly, i'd almost say she was taunting you

You should talk to her about it more. Maybe you can bring her back!

i don't know how she can conscionably do the things she does to you. Its really quite awful.

90% of what i learned in math is useless. Especially from trig onwards

the only trig identity i remember is tan=sin/cos.... or maybe its tan=cos/sin.... so i guess i really don't remember any

that takes out like 90% of the work then doesn't it?

I detested trig identities. I don't remember any of them

nah its easy. Breeze through it!

when I was in 8th grade, last year of middle school, the entire 8th grade class went to washington dc. Well, most of the 8th grade class. Some people didn't go because they got in trouble too much, others, including myself, simply didn't want to go. Actually, it was JUST me who didn't want to go. I could tell before we even left that it'd be a crappy trip. We'd be marched everywhere on strict itineraries, no fun allowed. And at the end of the day, we'd be taped into our hotel rooms. Literally! They taped the doors so if you opened it, they could tell and punish you for it.

I never understood the point of setting clocks 5 minutes ahead... just get your crap together

What's wrong with 11:24

unless someone reports them, I dunno if its likely.

so they're being removed?

how do they break the rules?