Thx for finding cancer and death funny. yeh its really not that funny at all Yes yes, alright. I don't find genuine suffering funny (normally). You must admit, though, some of the things people have talked about have been, for want of a better word, foppishly insignificant. I'm not saying that I have any "super suffering" that overshadows other peoples', but I'm not sure I'd call being injured my "worst day ever". Parents dying, yes; sorry if anyone read what I said as me laughing at their misfortune. Breaking a leg, cutting one's self, getting a bad report etc, no. There's no way to say "I don't mean to belittle your experience" without sounding patronising, so I shan't say it. I do mean it, though. Besides which, tragedy and comedy are linked quite deeply, are they not? You know: some things are so funny it's sad, and others are so sad it's funny. Once again, if I've struck any nerves by saying that A) I didn't mean it, and B) you shouldn't be posting your intimate feelings on a website for all to see. ok i forgive u i see what u mean about some of the stuff... like my chipping my toenail