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    well...where do i go from here?

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    Look, slushee, I can't for one moment even begin to have any sympathy for the way you have acted about this. As far as I'm concerned, you not only rejected help from your doctor (thinking you knew best), but you created a danger to other children, and perhaps most horrifically, you abused your trust with your girl best friend. This is made doubley worse considering you knew she'd been in rehabilitation twice, and that she was weak-minded enough to take them.

     

     

     

    Having said that, clearly you and this girl are cut from the same stone, and I understand how hard it can be for people with ADHD to socialise with people, simply because of their prejudism. She also clearly needs a solid person to take care of her in her life. From the sounds of things, she lacks that person. Like I said, you need to see your doctor about your illness. As said before, they often make mistakes - Medicine isn't an exact science and the body is perhaps more complex than anything known to man. As far as the judge goes, you have to accept what he says. He's a well-balanced and well-minded person who knows what's best for both you and society in general. Serve your time, get up, dust yourself down and get on with you life.

     

     

     

    But can you promise yourself one thing? I don't really care if you fulfill this or not - it doesn't effect me. Can you promise to yourself to take care of this girl? You both clearly need someone else to turn to for support, and you seem to give each other that support. A trusting and understanding friendship such as that is hard to come by... don't abuse that fact.

     

     

     

    That's all I have to say.

     

     

     

    thanks for the solid advice

     

     

     

    see when you have ADHD you don't think before you do things and you have trouble staying focused. i guess i gave them to her thinking it would make her like me more? i really can't figure out why i did. its an example of how i don't think before i do.

    well...where do i go from here?

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    You dealed out drugs not only to other students, but you gave them to your best mate that I would have hoped you'd have cared a bit more for. I would never get my best mate to do that for me.

     

     

     

    What should you do now? Talk with your doctor about your illness... apart from that, you tell me.

     

     

     

    i see it as she took them from me knowing they could be abused. i'm not "dealing" i did not EVER recieve money for them. i guess you just need to be in my shoes to see it clearer.

    well...where do i go from here?

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    I KNOW IT WAS STUPID, i came here looking for advice on what i should do not to be told i'm an idiot. i already know that! and this girl, jeez, you're calling me out on it, this chick has been to rehab 2 [bleep]in times!!!#@ she definatley knew they could be abused when i did not, i just figured giving it away was a quick painless way to get rid of it. i want to know if i should try and continue to be friends with the girl, she is cool as hell aside from the other things.

    well...where do i go from here?

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    i am 16 in anyone is wondering

     

    well my mom knows the whole story now so it just a matter of what i'll be telling the judge

     

     

     

    and anyone who has prescription meds that can be abused DO NOT DO WHAT I DID. GIVING THEM OUT IS STUPID. don't do it learn from the mistake i made and keep yourself out of trouble.

    well...where do i go from here?

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    alright. so lets get to it. i've been on prescription adderall since i was 7 years old. i have ADHD. [ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adderall ] this year i secretly decided i would stop taking it for a few days and see how it felt...it was great. i would actually eat, i was a lot more social, and felt good about myself. well every morning my mom would lay it out on the table and i would just put it in my pocket when she wasn't looking.

     

     

     

    one day she found it in my pocket in the washer and she was upset with me. i vowed i would take it and there would be no more problems. well i then thought why don't i just get rid of it at school? i did this. i gave it to several different people. the marking period changed. i met this realllyyy chill girl. she is amazingly good looking too which is a huggge plus. we soon became best friends and hung out regularly. fast forward to 2 weeks ago. i gave her 2 of my adderall because i wanted to get rid of them. okay. i expect her to either use them or dispose of them over the weekend. wrong.

     

     

     

    fast foreward to tuesday. she gets a pass to her councellor at 12:30 before our P.E. class. (she is in 2 of my classes) she re-joins P.E. at about 1:10 or so i see and she says "KYLE! my councellor saw those adderall hahaha...blah blah" i'm thinking okay nothing is going to happen. [cabbage] was i wrong. she gets pulled out of class by the v.p. okay about 10 minutes later i'm pulled out and they tell me to get my [cabbage] and come with them to the office i'm like god dam they're gonna search and i didnt get rid of my adderall from this morning im f'ed. so we get up to there office and they say to me blah blah you administered adderall to another student? well what can i do lie? i admit to it and they end up drug testing me (all negative btw) call my mom and we now have to goto the police station and i get interagated by the same detective that interagated me when i was picked up for graffiti.

     

     

     

    he harrases the living hell out of me and gets all the answers he wants. i get my fingerprints done, get sworn at by several different officers while im getting it done ( what the [bleep] are you thinking kid? ETC.) and then they tell me i'll have to go to court and get my punishment (probation whatever) and it turns out i get suspended for 10 days which means i am going to miss 3 days at the begining of next year because there isn't enough days left and whatever. this sucks because i'm obviously not going to be able to see my bestfriend again and i don't know what to do. what am i going to tell the judge? what does everyone think of me? am i screwed for life because this is going on my record? i guess this is just my moment of truth.

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