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The_Gabe

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  1. My girlfriend got scammed on her lease so now she's homeless for 48 hours and out something like $950. The landlord has until Saturday to get his shit together legally, but there's gonna be so many pressed charges otherwise, and subsequently my girlfriend will be moving in with her mom and brother. What a day

    How did she get scammed?

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    And I got out of that situation. We both did. We never hung out alone. I'm surprised that self control doesn't come standard with you people

    Self control doesn't "come standard" with anyone. It's something that you have to constantly work at.

     

    Just my opinion, but if you got to the point where you were actively discussing being in a relationship with another woman, you didn't have anywhere near a sufficient amount of self control.

    Eh, I'd agree with you here if it wasn't for the fact that they were just on a trip together. I think a lot of people would use the trip as an opportunity to cheat and then somehow convince themselves that it "doesn't matter" or "doesn't count." Since it's impossible for him to really stay in contact with her, and he never actually made any moves or anything like that, I don't really see anything wrong here-- no lapse of self-control imo. It'd be different if he was acting this way towards a girl that he works with or frequently comes into contact with, but I imagine such a situation would never occur in the first place due to self-control. In other words, I think they both understood that there was no chance of anything real actually happening between them since they were just on a trip together.

     

    BUT, with that said, I won't be surprised if this has some subtle effects (for better or for worse) on Gabe's relationship now that he has proof that women besides his girlfriend would like to have him as a boyfriend.

    Certainly he did exhibit self control, but it seems as though it was more "the opportunity not being right" than anything.

     

    Directly acknowledging your feelings for someone is a big step...and that doesn't come without a lot of flirting and shared intimacy, which is what should have been avoided.

     

    As for the effect on his current relationship, that's up to how he acts.

    I think some of you are really reading into this too much. Like way too much.

     

    We weren't really actually considering doing anything either. We didn't consider dating. We just acknowledged the fact that we were compatible.

     

    I Only did it because it was the end of the trip and I speak my mind. It has no effect on my relationship and I already know I can get other women. I was the guy surrounded by women during that trip. I'm also a sexy man :twss:

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  3. Over the course of 16 day trip, me and another girl from the group we were with started to become good friends, hang out, etc. She has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. She was also from pretty far away in the U.S. On the last day of the trip, we sat next to each other on the bus as we usually did and headed out to the airport with the group. I told her that I'm glad we were separating because I was starting to develop a crush on her and that's not good. She told me she was feeling the same way. 

     

    We agreed that in another lifetime, we could date haha. 

     

    I'm glad neither of us did anything we would regret. We just became good friends. 

  4. I haven't posted in a while. I'm currently in Israel. Had a group trip here and now I'm just extending to see family. I found out last night that some of my ancestors were expelled from Spain in 1492 during in the inquisition. Thought it was really cool.

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