You don't remember what it's like to get 500 exp on a good dungeon... do you? The early levels are really slow. Back on topic though, I think you should maybe look up some guides on how to kill them. On the main tip.it site, they explain what to do for certain bosses. They aren't all as simple as Right-click, attack, eat, dead. Some you have to do certain things or as you said, you'll get torn.