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i want to play videos and [bleep]ing chill but work has gotten more crazy than ever despite wfh. I know I still got a job and it ain't medical or retail where im likely to get infected but man i'm exhausted.

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@mystery admin - make rpg a mod. Ty

might be dead for reals this time but I have seen it die in here for longer than this current downtime

What is your thoughts on those tasks in the moment. Like when your hungry and no dishes. What goes wrong on the 'well its dish time'. Is your thought an 'I'll get to it later' Or something else perhaps? But I guess my post is how I'd handle a 'I'm so overwhelmed idk where to begin' that keeps popping up

So your single and live alone right? You really don't need more dishes than that. 1 fork, 2 knives, 1 spoon + the previously listed. Means even in a full depressive episode this won't be an hour long slog to clean. And when something happens that you can't call uber eats for, like your 2 cups are dirty, maybe you had dairy or coffee and its caked onto the bottom of it. You are literally forced to clean them when its 2 am and you are woke up and are dehydrated. And when that happens it will take 30 seconds, and theres a 50% chance you'll look at the 3 other dishes and say [bleep] it now its 1 minute of work.

I got a housemate who wont clean his dishes, so people just started putting them in his pantry on his food and he suddenly got way more motivated. Basically consequences help. Heres how to create some for yourself: If you want to do your dishes throw out 90% of them so you have 1 plate 2 cups and 2 pans and magically your dishes get done more frequently. Also yeah I've been up to 4am daily too shit sucks

The 'feel' of the animations makes everything feel like its moving slower than AOE2HD. Also the units feel less distinct. I wouldn't quite say i can't tell them apart but in a busy black forest game its harder to tell than it used to be. Glad it exists but wish the colors were more saturated like aoe2

had to quote your comment to see, the game he posted is Key to Heaven 2D. Definitely looks like a runescape fan game

wonder how long it'll take to get the full front page filled with 200m players. Also what do you do at 200m? Try to do the equivalent of comp cape trimmed? (cwars armor, all pets, etc., clue scroll or bossing ranks?)

99 but i want you to know im an ironman btw, btw btw btw btw btw btw

Well then yeah definitely trust your instincts. If your problem is: "I cant bring myself to complete a task that I start" then I would say that is a real problem. I'm sure your therapist would agree and work with you to find out where that problem is coming from. I think phrasing it to describe the problem your facing won't bias her towards one cause or another. Be it focus, anxiety or otherwise.

I mean I used it successfully to create a gym habit. The alarm was the trigger and the action would be that I always change into joggers and gym shoes and get in my car and drive to the gym and park in the parking lot. If I REALLY don't want to go to the gym I drive home. These days the change clothes and get in my car is complete auto pilot. I only begin considering if I wanna skip the gym today after I'm already driving there. The benefit of this system for me is its a lot easier to willpower myself in the gym doors when Im already clothed for the gym and driving there than if I was comfy in my room. I've also seen creative types use this when writing a novel for example. "I will write 100 words towards this novel no matter what, even if theyre trash and wont be included". Some days you absolutely will write your 100 words and toss them out and feel accomplished today. Other days you'll strike real inspiration and continue. But its definitely easier to find inspiration after you start writing. Again if your sure this wont work for you thats fine. If you havent tried it though I'd highly recommend it. Also not pushing you to do anything I'm mainly posting this as a testimonial for any other potential readers who were on the fence about it from my previous post...

I dont think you need to plan so far ahead to get things done. Not sure what the specifics of your list making entails but I think your better off setting an alarm that goes off at 7pm (or whever your guaranteed free hour is at) and when that alarm is dinging do something on your list. Odds are you'll clear out half your lists if theyre mostly errands or creative chores (such as novel writing, code base, painting, etc.)