But when you and derpina are consistently "preoccupied" at the same time... Aren't you assuming that derpina and my friends would know each other? Thats what I was trying to illustrate. How awkward it would be if you did have social connections (such as mutual friends) other than meaningless sex and the occasional "let's hang". For me? Not much. My business is my business. If any of my friends talk about, so be it.