Well im really sorry about having this dispute, cause if i was in your shoes i would feel bad, but its rules wat are broken, and rules are stated so they arent broke, because if there broke its eventually because its preventing something, for example, about goku flaming, it could had affected the outcome, flaming gets people irritated, unconcentrated, annoyed , and stressed out, all those factors are important when your ina war. If you get someone annoyed from another clan by flaming, its a rule which is broken, and its affecting the outcome as you mentioned.