Exactly why I'm waiting. But I just want to get it off my chest so to speak, so if they're still together by winter break, I'll just tell her.While it's good that you're waiting, you have to look at the benefits of telling her.. In all likelyhood she'll reject you and your friendship with both her and the boyfriend will be ruined, causing unnecessary drama. If by any chance she happens to dump her boyfriend for you, you've still created unnecessary drama, and, personally, I wouldn't have any interest with being with a woman who would leave her boyfriend at the drop of a hat like that. But maybe that's just me. So that's why I think you not only have no place to bring it up, but it's not a good idea regardless of the outcome. But hey, your life - whatever floats your boat. What are the benefits? Those sound more like consequences to me. :unsure: But I get what you're saying. Although it'd be more for me as coming to terms and accepting it. That's how I see it at least. How much do you like her? After thinking of it, sometimes I think the chase for Lacey was a waste now since she doesn't remember it. Now I'm just having second thoughts on the second chase. But we all do things for a reason and we just have to pull through the consequences.