i personally think that if you do in fact have feelings of love for another person you should want to be with them for the rest of your life. It is a concept that takes a very long time to gain enough experiance to come to an educated decision on. You must know the person very well before you can consider being in love with them. I have been with my girl friend for nearly 3 and a half years and have just decided in the past 4 months that i am in fact in love with her. I realize that i would do anything for her and if had to make the choice today of being with her for the rest of my life or waiting for something better i would take her...that just my thoughts on the topic.