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    "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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    Thanks a lot to both Sumpta and Toxic. It looks like both of you took different approaches to this situation, and I'm glad I'm getting lots of input.

     

     

     

    As for a little status update: I gave the girl her Ipod that she seemingly left with me on purpose today. She said thanks and smiled. Then, the next time I saw her in the hallway, she refused to make eye contact with me. Is she cracking already? Maybe she just wants nothing to do with me. I think the former seems more likely. Any thoughts? I think this was a pretty big sign as to what the future would hold.

    "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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    The damage report is spot on.

     

     

     

    Selection: Blue Pill

     

     

     

    I won't do so until tomorrow, but it's what I'll do. I'm not doing it for her, I'm doing it for me. I don't care what he has to say, helpful or not. I'm not digging myself any deeper into this, and I refuse to be caught up by this random flurry of emotions she's trying to put me through. I'm just going to let her make her decision and do what my brother has told me. I've cut off any chance of communication for the night.

     

     

     

    No no no no no. She'll see that you've friended him. Send him a direct message, or something that won't show up on the Facebook status wall thingymabob.

     

     

     

    I'm taking the blue pill. I'm denying him :P

    "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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    The damage report is spot on.

     

     

     

    Selection: Blue Pill

     

     

     

    I won't do so until tomorrow, but it's what I'll do. I'm not doing it for her, I'm doing it for me. I don't care what he has to say, helpful or not. I'm not digging myself any deeper into this, and I refuse to be caught up by this random flurry of emotions she's trying to put me through. I'm just going to let her make her decision and do what my brother has told me. I've cut off any chance of communication for the night.

    "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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    A random twist: She randomly texts me. She tells me not to accept this kids friend request on Facebook. She says he hates me and it will only cause trouble. This just so happens to be the kid that is her good friend from college. She promised me that they only saw each other for five minutes. I have no idea what to think about this. Is he trying to tell me off or start trouble with me? Is he trying to tell me she's a hoe?

     

     

     

    Frankly, I almost don't want to know.

    "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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    Here's an interesting story about my life that is developing as I write this:

     

     

     

    BACKGROUND:

     

    I met a girl a couple weeks ago. She is 16, I'm 18. She and I hit it off pretty quickly, but she frequently made and then canceled plans for the first week I knew her. I would ask her to come hang out with me, and she would agree. The next day she would pretty much ditch out on me to do something more interesting. FINALLY, she stuck to a plan, and her friend (whom I have known for a while now) came along with us. We had a blast. Everything went great. She and I flirted quite a bit and we "cuddled" for a bit.

     

     

     

    I shared a couple of feelings with her. I told her that there is definitely something good going on between us, and she agreed that she had a feeling or two for me. I told her I hoped I would see her again soon. She was enthusiastic about it.

     

     

     

    SIDE NOTE: She mentioned that she was still unhappy about the relationship she currently has with her ex-boyfriend. She feels like she is always judging her, and she said that she was "comfortable with being unhappy". I told her that she should continue to come out with me, and I'll show her a good time, without pressuring her into dating me.

     

     

     

    That was five days ago. Three days ago, her and I went out on a casual affair. We took a drive, I bought her some food, and we went on a two hour drive. We listened to music and talked, both seriously and jokingly. The feelings conversation was brought back up. She mentioned that she really didn't want to tell me anything about her feelings. She said she wasn't ready to share anything with me. I pressed the issue a bit, but gave it up pretty quickly. I wanted to know how she felt really badly, but I stopped myself. I changed the conversation as soon as possible and the night went on.

     

     

     

    Now here's where I trip up. She went down to visit a college with her friend and her friends mom. I know she has a really good guy friend down there, but I seriously doubt anything went on between them.

     

     

     

    Today she came back and didn't want to talk to me about anything, or so she said. I said (Via a text message) "maybe I'll call you later" and she agreed that this could happen. Eventually she texted me again, and a conversation ensued. Somehow, some way, she brought up the feelings thing again. She told me I'd "never understand" and that she "couldn't explain" even though she said she wanted to. I instantly started thinking she did something with another guy, but that idea was quickly disposed as I looked into it a little bit. However, that thought still somewhat lingers in my head.

     

     

     

    She begins to tell me how she doesn't want anything in terms of a relationship. She doesn't want to talk about it. I don't know where this came from because I didn't even bring it up, but nonetheless it happened. Our relationship went straight into the can. Somehow it got to the point where she didn't even want to continue talking to me. She did, though.

     

     

     

    This "situation" ended with me telling her the following: "Oh. One more thing. Did you lie when you said that there was something good between us?" She simply said: "No".

     

     

     

    I also said something like: "I wish you would just give me a chance"

     

     

     

    Her response was: "I want to, but I just can't. I'm sorry. I want to explain it but I can't."

     

     

     

    I said: "Don't be sorry. Just be you. I like you for you. I'll be here when you realize that being happy is worth taking chances with your emotions."

     

     

     

    She sent something back, but I had said what I wanted to leave her with. No communication since. This was about three hours before this post.

     

     

     

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    So, here's my question folks: What the HELL is going on here? My brother, who is 25 years of age, and has had countless tumultuous relationships has told me the following:

     

     

     

    She's basically playing the drama card. This is what you need to do: Listen to her, and don't engage in any communication with her. Don't ignore her, but DON'T START ANYTHING. In two weeks, one of two things will happen:

     

     

     

    1: Nothing. She could be trying to get with another guy and doesn't want you in the picture. You'd just have to move on with your life. It's not a big loss, really.

     

     

     

    2: She will send you a text, or call you asking why you haven't said anything to her lately. All you've got to say is "That's what you told me to do."

     

     

     

    He said #2 is usually what happens. To me, sounds like what will probably happen. I'm pretty sure this is her course of action. She just doesn't have her emotions in check, so she's pushing me away.

     

     

     

    What do you folks think. Does the above seem to be correct? Would I be wise to follow my brothers course of action?

    Is God real post your thoughts!

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    I believe in an eternal "after-life" in heaven and I feel that the possibility of ending up in hell is something too big to just ignore.

     

     

     

    What about the possibility that you're wasting the only life you get worrying about what an imaginary man thinks of you?

    Nomoredead's Blog - 99 Slayer Accomplished - Now on to 99 Smithing

    in BlogScape (Ongoing Progress Reports and Goals)

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    Well, here's a small, yet very big status update.

     

     

     

    I started my Fishing goal at 5,450,606 xp. I needed to fish 62,200 monks to get to 99 from there. I've fished 31,600 monks as of this very moment:

     

    RSHalfwaypoint99fisha.jpg

     

     

     

    Here's how many I have to go (should be pretty obvious :D):

     

    RSHalfwaypoint99fish.jpg

     

     

     

    So there you go. More than halfway done with my Fishing goal (from where I started). Woo :D.

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