An expression of outrage issues from the general chat community...not another girl question!?!?!?!?! Yet I find myself needing help and I'd like your thoughts. I used to go to public school, but in first grade, I transferred to an all-boys private school. Of course, I've forgotten most of the people from public school, but one girl (let's call her Samantha, not real name ) I remember pretty well because she was the teacher's daughter back in first grade. Her younger brother and my younger brother play on the same basketball team, so I see her at games fairly often, but I don't think we've exchanged words more than once or twice. I'd like to get to know her better (not in a stalker, lustful way) but where do I begin? I have no idea if she's "with" another guy in public school, and I wouldn't want to start being all outgoing in an obvious, weird kind of way, because I haven't said hardly anything to her in years! That's why it wouldn't work to just call her up and talk because it would be completely outside the norm of what's happened since first grade...What should I do? Thanks for any advice ya'll might have for meh.