Wow, just graduated from High School and you've already been faced with a ton of Adult decisions. . . Good Luck in Boot Camp -- seriously. Hm, only suggesting I can think of at the moment -- if you can afford it, give your friends's Mom/Parents flowers. Roses arn't necessary -- just Daisy's from the local grocery (Hm, Colorado -- Publix? Albertsons?). You don't have to spend over $10 a week, just get something pretty. Flowers to place in the middle of the kitchen table will make the Mom smile. :D They're a nice 'thank you.' Don't feel stupid -- they'll think it's sweet. (Ever read 'Son of Interflux?' Ya, that's what this situation made me think of) And while having to stay at a friends house is a burden -- it also shows you that they really *are* your friends. You can look back and go "Yes, I trust them, they came through for me when it really counted."