Every individual has their own views and opinions about these sorts of things, and I respect that. But I can't help but feel that many people who hold this view feels like this because they've had negative experiences in the past and/or are unable to hold down a successful relationship themselves, or because they've simply never had a relationship period and therefore, try to justify that fact in their own head by convincing themselves they do not want one to begin with. In my personal opinion, and speaking from experience, a happy, healthy, loving relationship is one of the most wonderful things you can experience in this world, and the times in my life where I've felt the most alive. Building a deep, loving bond with another human of the opposite sex often brings out the best in people, and inspires confidence and self assurance in one's self. The world can be a very dark, empty place sometimes, and so it really is a wonderful thing to have somebody to share your life with - somebody you can trust, confide in, and somebody you know is there for you when you need it. It is a very freeing and empowering feeling to allow yourself to become vulnerable, and to open yourself up to somebody else, letting them into the part of your life that you do not share with anybody else (especially if you are like myself and do not open up emotionally to other people very often). And that is exactly what it is all about - sharing. Relationships are not about what you can take and what you have to give in return, but about sharing your life, your interests, and your passions with another person, and in return, sharing in theirs. Travel, art, self-study, or anything else you enjoy can be shared with a partner. All relationships come with certain forms of sacrifice, but that does not mean they have to hinder your life, smother you, or prevent you from following your dreams or reaching your individual goals. If anything, relationships are one of the best forms of personal growth, and will open you up to new experiences and lead you to discover new things. Nobody can tell you what to do or how you should live your life, and I am certainly not trying to do so. But I hope that maybe I can offer you my perspective and perhaps, give you something to think about. I would hope that all people are given the opportunity to experience these things during their life time :) PS - Hi Tip.It.