Everything posted by Sir_Squab
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Do you wear glasses? No. Up until the quick eye exam I had for my learners permit, I thought I saw perfectly fine. I mean, slightly in denial because hey I know I see better with my right eye then my left, but with both eyes open I haven't had trouble seeing. (Okay except when I got diagnosed with diabetes and the change in blood sugar made me need glasses for a month, but that's just a common side effect of getting diagnosed with diabetes.)
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In other news, I think I have lazy eye. I've known for years, since I was a young kid (maybe?) that I saw better with my right eye then my left. I never really paid it any attention till today when I did my learner's permit, and then got a small eye exam where not being able to see well with my left eye became relevant. So apparently I have bad depth perception.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I partially agree... I'd say that people of opposite genders can only be real friends as long as you're sleeping with them (unless both of you are genuinely unattracted to each other permanently for whatever reason) Hmm. Generally, I think it's easier for girls to view guys as just friends whereas guys have trouble viewing a girl as just a friend. Which is where the friendzone comes from. I have a good female friend I met in highschool; we're just friends and we're only ever going to be just friends. A huge part of this, however, is how in highschool she had both of us convinced she was asexual... It doesn't make sense to me that people of opposite genders can only be real friends as long as you're sleeping with them though. My limited understand on this subject has led me to the viewpoint that, well, the human brain is almost incapable of treating sex as just sex. (Especially for both parties to treat it as such.) Sex changes the dynamics of the relationship. @Noxx: Your second explanation of the situation gives a very, very different sounding story then the first.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Am I the only person who seems absolutely nothing wrong with her talking to this guy? She's talking to him via a purely electronic medium without (at least what it looks like from what I read) any romantic or sexual subtext to it. Even if you do believe 100% in monogamy (which, for the record, is my personal choice) I see nothing wrong with someone having friends of the opposite sex, so long as they are just friends.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I wouldn't worry about that. This is why this thread is here. We often focus on 1 individual at a time. Okay Do you like yourself? Give me 5 things you like about yourself? Sorry if this reply seems harsh/stupid, but it sounds to me like you might have some psychological problems and that you need to learn to love yourself first. I don't like myself. N/A Why do you need to love yourself before someone else can love you? Hoo boy. So, there's more to relationships then this, but... think about getting into a relationship like sales for a moment. You are selling yourself. Not in the sense of prostitution, in the sense of trying to get people to pick your product over the competitor's. Pretend you own a car and you're selling it. Now some guys are like "here's this lamborghini that's awesome" or "here's this 30 year old sports car that I spent the past 3 years fixing up." And then there's you: "my car is a piece of crap. Please buy it." So, you've either got a car that is legitimately sucky and need to spend time fixing it up before someone will buy it, or you've got a half decent car and you need to stop comparing it to lamborginis. Anyways, it really sounds like step one for you is getting a good therapist. And if your parents tell you they hate you, you need to find good enough work so you can move out and cut contact with them.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
You're right. It's so much better to stay at home, look at porn, and never touch a real woman.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I seem to recall hearing somewhere in High School that once a girl starts having sex, she doesn't really stop. My impression (and I realize I'm naive about this so I could be wrong) is that a lot of girls save sex for their first long term relationship. After that, it's much less of a big deal in future relationships. Honestly? I think someone needs to tell him "you can keep close to your group of friends or you can keep close to your girlfriend, but not both." Also, doing things like cleaning and buying them pizza honestly makes you, well, how should I put this... cleaning and buying them pizza is supporting this behavior. You want to do the opposite.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Much downer, very negativity.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
That, and last time I wanted dating advice, I was smart enough to know what the smart advice was (end the relationship with the frigid girl who has trouble making time for me) whilst simultaneously being too dumb and hormone-stricken to follow that advice. (Maybe I'm just illogical because I like tacos?) Cue muggi giving a lecture on oneitis.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Pretty much why you don't see me asking for advice on this thread.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
^^^ Pretty much.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I find it far more likely that people just don't care and don't even try. If they can get dates whilst using poor grammar, what motivation do they have to use good grammar?
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Dragon hatchet
Trees have defense levels now? Wut?
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