I know you gotta put lke 4 doses of spice in for max boost etc etc, but im not sure which spices dd to which stats? I tried searching for a post but couldnt find any, HELP PLEASE!?

Here.

D Jay's got it. I've used spicy stew a lot. I know it says you can get up to +6, but don't count on it. Its very very rare that a stew would give you +6 in a skill. When I got 71 farming, it took me 10 stews to boost me up to level 75 and get my magic tree planted. So I'd recommend assuming that it will only ever give you +4 in the level you want, unless you're prepared to make a LOT of stews