my girlfriend

[tintmangbpack]

From what I interpreted from that post was that you are not mature enough to have a steady relationship with one girl.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My suggestion would be to try to date a lot of girls and find out what you like the most in a girlfriend and then try to find one girl to be with.

[d-von]

im pretty sure she is perfect for me. i know what i want, and some dude i know for ages (since i was like 4 or 5 or so) says we are perfect for eachother. (that friend is in her class)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

with those other girls made me realize there are more , its just she doesnt want to see me we see eachother way to less i dont think its good.

 

 

 

allthough she tells me she loves me a lot and she talks a LOT about me with her friends (spoke a friend of her and she knew half my life :P )

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i just want to know why she doesnt want to see me its like 1 time a week maybe two if im lucky (next friday there is some cool concert she wanted to go to since some friend of her wich lives kinda far away is comming to)

 

 

 

but suddenly she has to "babysit for her nephew" :?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i dont get it :?

[cardsfan]

Romeo and Juliet is a bad example lol. For a start were there supposed to be like 13 or 14. Then they killed themselves over each other lol. Not really good to tell ppl to follow their lead Razz

what i meant was if there's that connection, go for it, not that you should go out when you're 13 and get married after only knowing eachother for about one day.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I would think being in relationships at a young age is a good thing. The more you know about the opposite sex, the less youll screw up when it comes time for a real relationship.

very true, but what happens if you cant take the hit when your first relationship doesnt work? you may have second thoughts about starting something for the rest of your life, but my view is obviously bias, as im not very good at putting the shoe on the other foot.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i just want to know why she doesnt want to see me its like 1 time a week maybe two if im lucky (next friday there is some cool concert she wanted to go to since some friend of her wich lives kinda far away is comming to)

 

 

 

but suddenly she has to "babysit for her nephew" Confused

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i dont get it Confused

maybe its because its kinda early? i remember my teacher saying that relationships are rocky at the beginning and end, but smooth in the middle. maybe she's still shy, because she seems to like u a lot from what you've said. id say try to take it a bit slower, and talk to her about it, but dont make it seem like its her fault. the key is to be equals i believe, so just dont rush into things and make sure you two are on the same page

[Oy_the_Great]

im not sure what to do now i just could dump her and get a new chick, i kinda noticed how many ladies where trying to talk to me yesterday while i was headbanging.. but still.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:roll: So that's how much you care about your girlfriend eh? I'm surprised women can fall in love with people like you.

[crimsonking]

im pretty sure she is perfect for me. i know what i want, and some dude i know for ages (since i was like 4 or 5 or so) says we are perfect for eachother. (that friend is in her class)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

with those other girls made me realize there are more , its just she doesnt want to see me we see eachother way to less i dont think its good.

 

 

 

allthough she tells me she loves me a lot and she talks a LOT about me with her friends (spoke a friend of her and she knew half my life :P )

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i just want to know why she doesnt want to see me its like 1 time a week maybe two if im lucky (next friday there is some cool concert she wanted to go to since some friend of her wich lives kinda far away is comming to)

 

 

 

but suddenly she has to "babysit for her nephew" :?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i dont get it :?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just because you've known each other for a long time doesn't mean you are perfect for each other, and it doesn't matter how someone else sees it. What matters is how you feel about her, and that doesn't mean if you think she looks good or not, its what you think of her personality and how she acts.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you are ready to give up on her this quickly then your apparently not mature enough for a real relationship and have a lot to learn.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't get jealous so easily and make sure you give her enough space, you just started this relationship, so don't think that you are automatically the center of her attention, maybe you should try letting her know a bit more about you and maybe then she will want to spend more time with you.

[assassin_696]

im pretty sure she is perfect for me. i know what i want, and some dude i know for ages (since i was like 4 or 5 or so) says we are perfect for eachother. (that friend is in her class)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

with those other girls made me realize there are more , its just she doesnt want to see me we see eachother way to less i dont think its good.

 

 

 

allthough she tells me she loves me a lot and she talks a LOT about me with her friends (spoke a friend of her and she knew half my life :P )

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i just want to know why she doesnt want to see me its like 1 time a week maybe two if im lucky (next friday there is some cool concert she wanted to go to since some friend of her wich lives kinda far away is comming to)

 

 

 

but suddenly she has to "babysit for her nephew" :?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i dont get it :?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you like her as much as you say you do, just talk to her, what have you got to loose? She's your girlfriend if you're really perfect for each you should be able to talk to her about this before anyone else, and to be honest probably shouldn't be having these problems in the first place.