ok here;s the thing fluffy. growing up and watching my parents.. i've always known that i will marry my male best friend. my parents are still together.. they didnt have a perfect marriage.. but my mom tells my dad everything.. and he cooks for us. so i could never imagine myself with my ex because he wasn't even a good friend.. he was just a boyfriend. however.. if i had a best guy friend who could cook... well i'd probably molest him and then make him marry me because he touched me and spoiled me for other people. i dont have much female friends.. but i'd never abuse them the way that cyndi is treating you. this is psychological. you obviously love her as a friend. and she obviously is just usng you for the cool things you do for her, and for always being there for her. she is spoiled. and i want to punch her. my friends are such that.. i dont even need to talk to them.. and a few months later.. one of us texts the other and we are still the exact same people who love each other. why am i like this with one of my bestest friends? because... of work and time.. i don't have time for her and we don't have much things in common like facebook. yes i could get up off my ass and message her... but.. before i used to work on saturdays and sundays.. and we never had the time or energy to meet up. she;s the same so it works like how my friendship with you works. <3: anyways... if i had a boyfriend.. and.. we talked and told each other our deepest desires and most intimate secrets... i would feel closer to him than my friends.. maybe even the best friend i had. he would turn into my best friend. however... if my friend wanted to hang out with us.. or his friend wanted to hang out with us... i would... want to be friends with them. and even if that person didnt want to be friends with me.. i wouldn't push him.. i'd try to respect his boundaries.. because i know i'm a little weird. however.. if he completelly disliked my friend.. and i didnt agree with him for the reason of dislike.. he would be out of my life faster than you can say lijadoewioefwoifewpofaeoiaewwfaeh and... if he had a good reason for disliking my friend.. i would think... is this a reason i think i should stop being friends with someone.. if the answer was no.. i';d still be friends.. and if he didnt like it.. he could just not be around there.. when my friend was there.. including the wedding and other important times where friends should be. if his reason was valid and i agreed... i would.. still keep that person as a friend but slowly fall out of the friendship.. <_<