Everything posted by RpgGamer
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Keeping up the clingy/needy act (or not act) is where it becomes an issue regardless. Even of you do benefit from it in the short run, constantly texting eachother and becoming codependant is a super dangerous game to be played; unless if you both truly intend on spending the rest of your lives together (or as muggiw will argue, that's also bad for numerous reasons.) Basically its a long haul style of creating bonds that results in a lot of heartache in the midrange (read:average) relationship. I've made the mistake of being the clingy one once. It was certainly something. I can't say it didn't have its moments but I don't think I want to do it again.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Maze, if she was laying it on heavy she was just letting you know there's competition and you're probably not in first place. Yet. Absolutely call her out and ask her what youre name is in her contact list and feel free to change hers to something silly when she reverses the question back on you. And ignore the bullshit aboit wait this many hours and this many days. Everyonr has different tolerence levels. As long as you aren't being attention needy or clingy you're fine. And don't ask if youe being to clingy. THAT would be shooting yourself in the foot. @egg Imagine how much shit shed give you if you did the same to her. Tell her that and ask for an explanation, I'm sure there is one. Hopefully she's mature enough to give it to you.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Nothing guarentees a second date like showing up late to the first one and forcing her to pay for the second one. Especially after your handsy first encounter, you sly devil
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Precisely. Today I went to the arcade and beat terminator salvation in $15. Almost got fired because my "corporation" owner is an idiot, but its all good in the hood after explaining to my boss that he's an idiot. Aparently I cost too much, when I save them over $23,000/year. Geniuses.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Don't talk about your feelings toward the death of Guthix. HAI COW
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Been there done that Ezk. Do what you feel you can handle, just know that continuing the perpetual emotion dance has just as many downs as ups
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Sometimes the pua forums make me want to bash my head in with a brick wall. Even OP says "I'm screwed up cause my mom wasn't around, isn't it bad to be the dad that isn't around?" Dude answered his own question in the first post.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Some girls can rock 8.5" hair. some girls.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
The thing is that I don't see her in person anymore. As soon as I asked her to hang out, she would know what's up. Should I call and ask her on a date to coffee then? Is that the final decision? This is dating, not kidnapping. You don't need to keep it a secret ahead of time. And if she automatically knows that you asking to hang out means you like her, well... she probably already knows you like her? Also, if you never see her in person, you're not risking much if things don't work out. This. Stop [kitty] footing and ask her. Why make it a confuddled ambiuous casual nothing when you want a date? Why mask that its a date if you want a date? Worst case scenario she says no and you get on with your life. Of course shell know what's up. You think you're the only poor sap that knows she's single? Ill bet you have at least 3 othwr dudes already talking to her. Get your act together and talk to her.
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Which college? I'm like 10 minutes away from center city. Today my car didn't start and when I went to pop the hood to put the jumper cables on, the latch snapped which made it impossible to open my hood. Fun stuff. I hope TD likes the new parking lot ornament I gave it -.- Penn and Drexel. Walked down to Reading Terminal Market and had a very good lunch too. I got some friends in drexel, though I think most of them graduated last semester. Party with the phi mu girls if you're looking to get laid, and check out Tea Doe in Chinatown. Best tea ever in your life. You will achieve nirvana. And look into center city sips if you end up with an Id stating that you're 21. Today: boss called me to tell me he's not paying half my crew because they're "uselss overhead". I hope he enjoys being auditted when I get back with my lawyer.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Depends on the girl, you, the ex, and the dynamic of relationships between all permutations of the three parties
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Noxx I think the thread has concluded that you're pretty screwed in your current situation and there's very little you can do about it. My next quality of your issue I'd like to prod being how vigilantly your parents would stick to cutting you off. Could they really live with themselves knowing they screwed over their son's future? (And aren't you their oldest child, that could win some points)
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Would it be impossible to move in with your girlfriend's family in the meantime? Earn your keep best you can and whatnot
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"The impersonator" He joined us here in OT for a short while but didn't stick around. And there was that kid with the cool glass orb. Today I admit that I am addicted to the android game "D.O.T." . Its too addicting for its simplicity. If any of you end up playing it I'd love it ig you used my invite code so we both get free stuff. In other news, I'm still sick so I watched the first 2 seasons of batman beyond in one sitting. Good God they don't make tv shows like they used to.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Until then he kinda just has to live with it, but it does give a kind of romeo and juliet feel to his relationship, keeping things interesting in the meantime
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Noxx, you need to get some imdependence from your parents, destroy the validity of their threats. Finish school and get the hell away from them. If you leave them, there's a chance they'll come back to you (same concept as not calling a girl for a while and then she ends up calling you). The struggle of independence will strenghthen your relationship with your girlfriend, who already has a hand in financial independence. The struggle to pay bills, working constantly and earning frredom from your parents threats with your own hands is a great way to keep a lady interested. Nothing boring about a provider, given that she also works hard for the shared goal of living with you away from your parents. Or you could dye your girlfriends skin a few shades lighter and tell your parents you met a new girl thats just as good as the last but whiter haha