I've had similiar issues in the past. I've learned from the experience. Tone down the jealousy abit. You have the right to feel hurt, but (how long have you been together anyway?) it's probably nothing. Yes this all seems suspicious, but I wouldn't sweat it unless she continues to blantantly, and knowingly hurt you. If you come off as controlling, teenage girl law dictates that she must repeat the action to get back at you. Just calmly tell her that you're worried about the status of your relationship. If she understands, she'll either stop...or find a way to make you feel better about it. If she doesn't, I can't see your relationship making it much further with out major isues. This would be a good time to ask her out if you're interested (which I assume you are considering if you weren't you could just as easily ignore the situation). Signs point to she likes you. Do you want to keep your friend or the girl? If the girl is really worth the risk, tell your friend that the competition is on, and then ask her out. If she says no, be ready to accept the fact that she could be with your friend. If she's not worth it, get over her quickly so it won't be awkward with your buddy. It will be two months on the 16th. I don't know if she realizes shes hurting me but I have told her it does. She decides to hang out with him anyway. I asked how is our realationship going and she says good......