catie

well ive already decided this forum is full of jerks.. so this will be my last post on it.

you're all kids IMO. 18 isn't very mature. and fictious? you wanna see the scars on my body from being beaten by my mother? or how about the police records where i ran away 3 times? or how about the hospital records from 3 suicide attempts? lol. i know what i'm talking about. haters gon' hate. done with this convo; can take my advice or leave it. fact is im the only one here whos been in a situation like this girl. and mine was worse. and i dealt with it. if she cant, shes a pansy. last post here.

kid, don't call me wrong unless you've been in that situation which i have. she can suck it up and move out like i did or she can deal with it. any "problem solving" such as talking it out will make it worse. gf.

im so gonna buy pringles so i can join in on this

Um, that's nothing. It sounds like she just needs to grow up and so do you. My parents did far worse to me, and I guarantee she's doing something to provoke at least some of this seemingly over exaggerated behavior.. Her situation truly isn't that rough. Every teenager goes through something at least semi similar. Your solution is to grin and bear it until you're both 18. Period. (I had to correct some of the spelling here.. drove me nuts..)

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o hai. hi:)

From personal experence, it's the total opposite for me. (especially the messed up part, which most here will agree on about me) :mellow: Women know what they want. They know when they aren't getting it. Some become dependent on the person they are with, and if their feelings start to disappear, they have a lot of trouble figuring out what to do; this is not the same as not knowing what they want. It's just the inability of doing it in an uncomplicated manner. The two should not be confused. Women are complicated. And often times portrayed as irrational because unless you have a woman's hormones you will not understand our rationale. I am usually able to explain mine; and because of this have more of a man's personality and get along better with guys. I really can't stand girls.

If you want a friend with benefits thing, present it to her that way. It's easy. Men always seem to think us girls are these fragile, delicate emotional balls of issues. Truthfully, it's because men never know what they want, and they always want to dance around these things, that messes us up. I have always made my intentions clear when engaging in sexual activity with someone. For example, if I want it to be casual, I let them know. If that changes, I let them know. If I think I have feelings for them, I let them know, and etc. We only want the same respect from you. Tell her exactly what you want. Don't [kitty]foot around it. Easy as.

hey guys :) new to this forum.. getting a bit bored with rhq. :x