You made the right decision. If she doesn't want you to help, then so be it. If you still truly have feelings for her, then you should at least tell her. If she loves you back, yay. If not, move on yay.
Oh no boys, looks like we got ourselves some fresh meat. Or whatever it is harpies eat. Harpies eat blackjack. That's the first thing I saw in your signature.
Going out with the whole family since it's most likely my grandmother's last Christmas (alive) due to cancer. Other than that, not really anything special. I'm not someone who goes all out on holidays really.