I am incredibly happy but slightly worried. Second semester of my freshman year in college. I met this girl Chelsea last semester in a gaming club. Seemed really cool, but I still had a pretty thick shell around me - it's a wonder I have any friends at all here. So I didn't talk to her much. Now, I feel great. I haven't shattered the shell, but there are holes I can get through. Started talking to Chelsea more and more. One of my friends, AJ, informed me that Chelsea thought I was really cute. And that she would want to date me. Cool. To skip over a few weeks of unnecessary dialogue, I asked her out, we went on a date last Monday, it went great and now, one week later, we are officially one hundred percent a couple. I'm slightly worried because two nights ago, Sunday night, I slept over at her dorm room. It was actually fairly innocent. Watched a movie, some TV. Made out some. Didn't do anything terribly risque. But when we woke up, things got kind of heated. I'm not sure what I'm allowed to say here, so I'll just say we went as far as we could without going all the way. Now, I'm totally down with stuff like that. Did it a lot throughout my life, but it was almost always with meaningless people that I had no emotional regard for. Chelsea, though... I really like her. She's pretty special. Is that going way too fast? Oh, and also, AJ is gay and in love with me (I'm bi) and that's kind of bad because I love him as a friend, but nothing further. Us hooking up a bit first semester kind of complicated things, I guess. And he gets really moody and upset when he sees Chelsea and I holding hands or something. What the heck am I supposed to do about that?