May 13, 200521 yr ok, I'd like some advise on this. allright theres this girl that I've liked for quite a while now, and lets see it was about a month or so ago that she started fliting with me, then she just stopped and got a boyfriend. She has had the boyfriend for about a month. There are now 9 days left of school for us, next year we will be at different schools. now this is the weird thing, the girl has a friend that plays the clarinet, and the boyfriend got in big trouble for shoving a condom up her clarinet. Most likey this will make the girl I like very angry, and they will probably break up, but i dont know anything about her reaction yet. what should I do?
May 13, 200521 yr ok, I'd like some advise on this. allright theres this girl that I've liked for quite a while now, and lets see it was about a month or so ago that she started fliting with me, then she just stopped and got a boyfriend. She has had the boyfriend for about a month. There are now 9 days left of school for us, next year we will be at different schools. now this is the weird thing, the girl has a friend that plays the clarinet, and the boyfriend got in big trouble for shoving a condom up her clarinet. Most likey this will make the girl I like very angry, and they will probably break up, but i dont know anything about her reaction yet. what should I do? Let it flow whatever way it's gonna flow. Do what you think you should do at the time you think it. Acting the way someone on a computer tells you to act, or doing something they tell you to do, means you're not being yourself. Being yourself is the best way to do things because you don't want the girl to fall in love with something besides yourself, do you?
May 13, 200521 yr Author yea, but still i'm kinda like in a rush as there are only 9 days left untill shes pretty much gonna be gone.
May 13, 200521 yr For one, you shouldn't be asking people online what you need to do in real life. For two, we don't know you so you shouldn't trust advice about the girl. Now that, that is settled. Request lock and settle this on your own. :-D
May 13, 200521 yr Beat up her boyfreind :twisted: :twisted: Or the more subtle approach would be to wait for them to break up and then ask her out. Its not like you'll NEVER going to see her again.
May 14, 200521 yr seangotgame doesn't know what he is talking about, but i agree with the being yourself thing. That works the best. She was flirting with you before because she liked you. I suggest being yourself and asking her out when YOU feel it is okay to do so. Even though you aren't at the same school, you can still hang out on the weekends or stuff like that. Good Luck Buddy!
May 14, 200521 yr Judging by the other posts, I would have thought you would have realised tip.it is NOT the place to ask for girl advice. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you.
May 14, 200521 yr ummm ok...any other ideas? I like icutyoursouls advise the best so far..... just try and be good friends with her and then flow with the wind. im only saying be good friends because you can meet her in the summer time, it gives you more time.
May 15, 200521 yr The best advise has already been given, be yourself. She likes you for who you are not for what someone says you should do. However, something to consider... If you and she will be going to different schools next year you will both make new friends and find different interests. This has happend to me when I was younger and my parents moved a lot causing me to be enrolled in different schools. You find that you and your friends or girlfriend want to stay close and do things together but with the new friends it becomes more and more difficult until you break up and basically stick to your own crowd at your own school. That is not to say it will happen to you, but its what tends to occur. Good Luck to ya, and try to remember if its meant to happen it will and if it doesnt it just means there is something better out there in your future, you just need to wait and let it happen.
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