Okay, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend Megan. We've been dating for about 5 months, and we've had a lot of sex. I really do love her and she feels the same about me. It's not like two random teens convinced that they're in love even if it's just sex or something.. We know each others strengths, weaknesses, faults and we accept each other and really connect.

 

 

 

A few weeks ago we were in my room and we were talking about how long we thought we would be together and stuff, and she grabbed a pin and poked it through the condom I had in my pocket a few times. She told me that if anything happened it meant we should always be together..

 

 

 

Four days ago she told me she was pregnant, and we both told my mom together (my dad died two years ago.) My mom was a little worried at first but later was okay with it.. When Megan was ready to tell her parents the next day, I was with her, but when they got home she told me she wanted to do it alone.

 

 

 

So I haven't heard from her since.. I've tried calling, texting, e-mailing and going to her house. I've spoken with her father and he told me she's having an abortion and I can't see her again. He told me she agreed with the abortion and said she doesn't want anything to do with me but I obviously don't believe that.

 

 

 

I really don't know what to do, I tried to sneak into her house but her dad caught me and broke my nose.. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! I'M REALLY SCREWED HERE [bleep]

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Well do you really want to have the baby with her? Are you certain you're ready for this commitment? Your age is a bit concerning and have you thought about how you're going to raise the baby. :/

 

 

 

What happens when you go to her house and try to talk to her?

you [bleep]ed up bad dude #-o

 

 

 

try talking to her friends,to get an idea how she is at the moment

 

 

 

another reason to wear condoms while having sex lol

you [bleep] up bad dude #-o

 

 

 

try talking to her friends,to get an idea how she is at the moment

 

 

 

another reason to wear condoms while having sex lol

 

But it looks like he wanted a baby with her.. and he did wear a condom (that was poked with holes) so...

wow just wow.

 

 

 

Who would even want a kid at that age

A few weeks ago we were in my room and we were talking about how long we thought we would be together and stuff, and she grabbed a pin and poked it through the condom I had in my pocket a few times.

 

 

 

Wow, that's pretty [bleep]ed up... If she wants an abortion there really isn't anything you can do about it and, in all honesty, I really wouldn't try and force a kid at your age.

Obvious question, are you sure she is ACTUALLY pregnant? Like have you seen her take a pregnancy test infront of you or been to the Doctor?

 

A lot of girls (well, and boys too for that matter) get odd ideas in the heads. and man trapping often crops up.

 

To be honest it kinda sounds like that to me.

Damn dude. Only thing to do is to talk to her and your parents and come to a unanimous decision about your relationship and whether or not you will want it aborted.

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