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Love doesn't [bleep]ing exist


Naive

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She dumped me. Dumped me for another guy she's been seeing for 9 months. Pah. I probably deserve it, haven't talked to her for a month, didn't send her her Christmas present. He's in the Marine Corp. She's gonna go into the service too. She's been lying to me for the past few months. She never loved me. All I was was an amusement for her to break. Well it [bleep]ing worked.

 

Love doesn't exist. There's no such thing. I'm thoroughly disgusted that I ever thought it existed. I'm a stupid, hopeless, heartless fool.

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If love existed, it did in you, not her. For someone who did not send Christmas present, you seem to care alot about her dumping you, you care about her.

 

Presents isen't everything. You could have tried harder to give her that present, but her dumping you shows she's the weak link.

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I disagree with SirHemen to an extent. You failed to keep any passion alive in that relationship, as evidenced by your last blog and this one. It was wrong of her to not end it earlier, but you have some of the blame to take yourself. Also, it's pretty far-fetched to proclaim that love doesn't exist based on a relationship that is so abnormal and clearly unimportant to you.

 

EDIT: You know what's funny about Tip.it? It's the worst place in the world to complain about things. All you'll get is logical, reasonable answers that wont make you feel any better, but may just make you feel much worse (which is a good thing).

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Girls (and guys) are much more... selfish and fickle... when they're young. It sounds like you aren't - that's good. Problem is, you're going to run into many girls who a) don't know what they want and/or B) want to use you so they won't be alone. The number of people like this decrease as you get older. It hurts now, but you will find someone who wants what you want.

 

Morningrise and Gidion, notice that she was disengaged for the last nine months. Frankly, I think Sman picked up on that (subconsciously, at least) and has been pulling away himself. If he's been focused and she hasn't, it will show.

 

You're truly better off without her, Sman. Learn from this, and make yourself a better person.

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how long were you 'together' and how did you meet?

 

distance relationships - i've never known one to work out.

 

best mate saved a year to go to the US and see his bird, when he got there she dumped him.

 

you're well shot of her mate. go get bladdered, get yer [bleep] wet and forget about her.

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Don't pin all of the blame on her. Yes she has been cheating on you for 9 months and I NEVER condone cheating.. but from this blog entry and the previous one, you gave her NO reason to love you in the first place. You hadn't spoken to her in a month, you bought her a Christmas present but didn't send it (for no reason). Those two things tell me that you weren't putting effort into this relationship. If you weren't putting effort in, she wasn't going to want to stay with you, it's simple as that. Girls like to see a man who is devoted to the relationship and obviously cares about her. It sounds like you did neither. You say that love doesn't exist, but that isn't completely her fault. YOU didn't put any love into this relationship from what I can tell. In order to receive it, you have to put it in. Long distance relationships *are* tough, but that's no excuse for the things that you did (or should I say "didn't do"). In fact, I don't think I'd truly consider two people to be a couple if they didn't talk for one month and had no reason for it (i.e. no physical way to communicate).

 

Think of it this way: you receive what you give. It sounds like you gave her little attention and showed little appreciation for her. In result, that's what she gave you back. It sounds like you only started caring about her when you lost her, meaning that you only want her when you can't have her. So maybe you like the IDEA of being in a relationship, but not the actual work/dedication that it requires. But if you want to have a successful relationship, you have to put as much as you can into it.

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Instead of a logical response I'll just say, sorry :(.

 

My friend just got out of a relationship that he was pretty much set on, but the other girl fell for someone else and he was dumped like a piece of [cabbage]. That feels really bad, considering that he really did like her (a lot, and I mean a lot...) so you're not alone. The best thing to do is just move on, because you'll always have people out there that want to hurt you; just keep going and ignore them. There is always someone else out there, and hopefully she will have the same feelings for you as you have for her :).

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Hey Tripsis, nice on extrapolating an entire history based on one month at the END of it. That's like looking at a dying old man and saying he must have been sick and wrinkly his entire life.

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