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  1. Today I'm going to work on more summer assignments before school starts on the 5th :angry:

    LOL at CMCSS schools.

     

    I remember back when I was a kid, we started school in September. Then again, we didn't get out until June...

  2. Girlfriend of 9 months broke up with me tonight.....

     

    I feel betrayed. Everything I'v worked for, the money and the time I'v spend, all out the window because she meets this insignificant little [cabbage], hangs out with him a few times and now she feels "confused?"

     

    What the [bleep]?!?!?!

     

    Yeah im pissed. Worst part is this has happened to me before ( with a different girl )

     

    [bleep]IN THING SUCKS

    I had a girl dump me because she felt attracted to her best friend. Who was also a girl.

     

    WAT

     

     

    Now see thats mildly hot.

     

    Its such [cabbage] for me because We go to college in the same city yet when were home were 5 hours apart, so because she "missed me" she started hanging out with other guys.

     

     

    Im pretty upset.

     

    To other guys, it's hot, but to me it was [bleep]ing humiliating and deflating.

     

    Also, the only girl I ever loved (different girl than the one who went les) dumped me to date a drop-out loser for close to two years and actually move in with him. Shortly after they moved in, he started doing cocaine. Nice choice, [bleep].

  3. Girlfriend of 9 months broke up with me tonight.....

     

    I feel betrayed. Everything I'v worked for, the money and the time I'v spend, all out the window because she meets this insignificant little [cabbage], hangs out with him a few times and now she feels "confused?"

     

    What the [bleep]?!?!?!

     

    Yeah im pissed. Worst part is this has happened to me before ( with a different girl )

     

    [bleep]IN THING SUCKS

    I had a girl dump me because she felt attracted to her best friend. Who was also a girl.

     

    WAT

  4. And if you bring statistics into it, relationships without premarital sex are less likely to end in divorce. Causality is up for grabs, but it's still interesting.

    But that's probably more about the people behind those ideas and the morals they have rather than the act of sex itself :P Like as one example, I wouldn't be surprised if many of the people who don't believe in sex before marriage also don't believe in divorce, regardless of how good their relationship still is.

    Like I said, causality is up for grabs. But I do think there's something to the theory that a relationship is stronger if it first succeeds non-sexually.

    A relationship built around sex is not really a relationship. No matter how good it is in the beginning, it WILL get boring eventually and then all that will remain is two people who, likely, cannot stand to be in the same room as each other. Sex is an important part of a serious relationship, but it's not everything, not by a long shot. A good relationship has to be built around friendship, around sharing common interests and genuinely enjoying each other's company, or it is doomed to fail.

  5. Yup. We're so similar it's eerie.

     

    I had trained myself not to get attached to anybody-- it's easier and less stressful to be lonely than to pine for someone. And it did make my life quite a bit more pleasant. Then I met the girl I mentioned several posts ago, and allowed myself to feel again, and as a result my emotions were once again thrown into turmoil.

    Sure is.

     

    I've actually been pining for someone for about 9 months now, and it's been pretty [cabbage]ty at times and fantastic at other times (but mostly [cabbage]ty). So, I'd have to totally agree when you say that it's easier to not have anyone you're really interested in. It just plain sucks when you're interested and she either isn't or you have no idea if she is or not. But this girl has the same morals as me when it comes to saving ourselves for marriage, and she wants a virgin for a boyfriend. I don't know how many girls I'm going to meet like her. :\ :oops:

    So why haven't you made a move?

  6. I'm frustrated beyond belief. And quite unhappy. I just don't know if having casual physical relationships would make me happy. I want a serious one. D:

     

    I just try to either keep it off my mind via activities (longboarding, video games, movies) or just tell myself that it should be worth it once I get married. And I sure as hell hope it's worth it. :s

    Yup. We're so similar it's eerie.

     

    I had trained myself not to get attached to anybody-- it's easier and less stressful to be lonely than to pine for someone. And it did make my life quite a bit more pleasant. Then I met the girl I mentioned several posts ago, and allowed myself to feel again, and as a result my emotions were once again thrown into turmoil.

  7. So, I have this mindset that makes relationships with girls rather difficult. I'm rather picky when it comes to what girls I find attractive to the point of actually wanting to be in a physical relationship with them. So there are very few who are in this category, and at this time, only one that I possibly have a chance with.

     

    A lot of my friends around me get into a lot of flings. We'll go to a party and often times guys from my group will go make out with girls that went to our high school (while under the influence). But no other meaningful relationship exists between these 'couples' besides the occasional physical 'get together'. For me, such a relationship doesn't look appealing at all, especially since none of these girls are attractive to me to the point of wanting to do anything physical with them.

     

    I feel like I shouldn't be going around having physical-only relationships with girls, because 1) I want to be able to be honest with a girl I get into a serious relationship with and tell her how I didn't just mess around with a bunch of other girls (basically, I've kinda held back and waited for said girl); and 2) all the girls I do find extremely attractive (i.e. those who I would do physical things with) I'd rather have a serious relationship with.

     

    Anyway, I think it's preventing me from getting over certain girls. I could be like all my other friends and just get drunk and flirt like hell and take advantage of the situation and just make out (or do more) with all these other girls. But for some reason, I don't want to do that. And, tbh, my hormones are really pissed off at me because of it. :P

     

    So... anyone else experiencing something similar?

    I know exactly how you feel because I am the same way.

     

    I've never had a truly serious relationship and have never gone beyond a kiss on the cheek as far as physicality goes. Everybody these days has way more experience than I do, and it often makes me feel pretty insecure. However, I absolutely do not want to become another statistic for some girl. I was raised to value the emotional bond created by a sexual relationship, rather than to view sex as something to do just because it feels good. I really hope to someday meet a girl who is the same way (doubtful as it may seem).

  8. I'd not be fussing so much about this if it wasn't for the fact that the stats they rolled back were achieved YEARS ago.

     

    I got 99 range about 3 years ago. I had more than 17 million xp in it (go figure, its my favorite skill!) and I loved doing Armadyl god wars with my friends.

     

    I worked for more than a year to get upto 90 rcing. Now its 84...

     

    There has got to be some algorithm for figuring out punishments, and if IP address is not looked at then I'm not sure if I can agree 100% with the roll back. I've always played from one of two locations: my home and my college dorm. These two locations are about 50 miles apart. I'm a student and not really that rich, nor do I have that much free time just to buy a ticket to fly to China and bot for a month. Its illogical that I'd do something like that and quite honestly I was a little disappointed that this strange login behavior was not picked up as abnormal.

     

    While I don't particularly enjoy comparing two different video game companies, I kind of like the path Blizzard took by sending me an email where I was told of suspicious activity and the addition of the unauthorized authenticator to my account. They KNEW that I could not possibly be in Vietnam. Also, Vietnam and surrounding Asian countries are often the origination points for most online game gold farmers... just stating the facts.

     

    There is one thing I can do, and that is to have patience and await my appeal. I did not bot or do anything like that, so I have nothing to lose (unfortunately if Jagex chooses not to do anything about it then I have nothing to gain either...).

     

    AFAIK, if they temp ban you for botting, they halve ALL your stats and remove all your stackable items. It doesn't really matter if the ban was legitimate or not, in the end you still end up getting [bleep]ed. It really sucks, but that's Jagex.

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