spot the homophobic.... the girl is 17 and therefore has legal rights to express her sexual idienty, the school had no right to go to her mother as it is the girls affair and it should not of been brough to the mums attention. all she was doing was hugging and kissing, if she was doing more full-on stuff (i dont feel that its neccessary to say wot they could be lol) then there might be a cause for concern at the school. schools need to realise now that ppl do not save themselves till marriage anymore (probably only a very very very small minority do) and that this type of behaviour is not regarded as exceptable. i have a strong feeling that if she was kissing a boy then this would not have been brought to her mothers attenion, i feel this is merly another discrimination act