I would be a bit miffed if someone was around and did nothing to repair my grave. If I had the chance I would definatly repair the grave - even to extend it to an hour. To give someone the joy of returing and finding their stuff safe is well worth the sacrifice of a prayer pot. I was very lucky the other day, I had decided to upgrade my grave a four minute one - a few minutes later I lagged in the wildy (for the very first time in 3 years playng) and those darn revenants got me. After a little bit of running around I found my grave stone, with 58 seconds left) - got all my stuff back - phew Try to go through life being nice to everyone (I know there are those complete ****** that you couldnt be nice too if you life depended on it, but they are the exception) and occasionaly someone will be nice back