see, my situation is that... i am extremely afraid of rejection. There is this girl in my class that i am head over heels for, I am completely and undoubtedly in love with her, but I am afraid of rejection and what would follow rejection. What I think that makes me fear rejection like I do is that two girlfriends have cheated on me and one of them cheated on me with numerous guys. So I am basically also saying that I am paranoid another girl will cheat on me. There is one more thing that blocks me from asking her on a date/to be my girlfriend is that what if we aren't friends again after that. We aren't best friends, but we are definitely friends. Please Help, Oscar Roether A.K.A GODofbaseball