It's a bit worrying that a lot of this is done without at least some information handed out to the public. They could explain what the purpose is for and eliminate a lot of peoples worries by re-assuring them. But the lack of information has allowed this to grow into an issue for a lot of people. Imo, this is a step towards a police state.
The Reader By Bernhard Schlink Currently reading it for my English class. Wasn't looking forward to it at all but it's actually a really good book. They also made a movie based on the book with Kate Winslet, which is also nice. Really recommend it :D
What worked for me to get a gf. -Confidence, Being Myself, Sense of Humor, Outgoing, Variety of Interests, Motivated Mindset, Artistic (thats what my gf says about me anyway lol)