jackpotvegas Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 I like to say i need some advice right now im 10 pounds overwieght i have ben working out ive lost 10 pounds so far but just yesterday i found this great girl who was very beautiful...You may say im not the popular ones but i really need some help on how to get back on wieght track and how to even talk to her and impress her any suggestions :?: EDIT pls pm me "jackpotvegas" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barihawk Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Weight should not be an issue. I am 40 lbs overweight and there are many girls who find me attractive (unfortunately, they smoke or drink and therefore are off my list). Just be yourself. If she likes you, yay. If not, shrug it off and keep looking. Changing yourself for a girl is a bad idea. As for losing weight, do what I do. Run 1-3 miles at least 3 times a week. Spend 30 minutes on an excercise bike 3 times a week. Do 50-100 crunches for abs and 10-50 pushups to tone your arms. Above all, watch what you eat. Make sure the equivalent or more is being worked off than consumed. Watch calories and burn them off. My heart is broken by the terrible loss I have sustained in my old friends and companions and my poor soldiers. Believe me, nothing except a battle lost can be half so melancholy as a battle won. -Sir Arthur Wellesley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackpotvegas Posted January 19, 2006 Author Share Posted January 19, 2006 thank you for the weight thing but now i really like this girl she is nice not like the other girls who unfortuantley rejected me :oops: well that was only one girl and that was a long time ago Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barihawk Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Niceness is a virtue. But do you know anything about her? Do you like her for her personality? Do you like her for her looks? You should try to do a little research before you go rushing off. Don't act stalkerish, but try to make friends with her friends and especially with her. Get to know her a bit. One of two things might happen: -She might return your feelings and mutual affection will happen. Friendship is a heavy factor here. It really does form the deepest part of love the emotion. -She might not share your feelings and just wish to remain friends. There is no problem here, as you have gained new friends! This is a stepping stone to finding another girl. Remember, being "popular" means having lots of friends. Make more friends, and the less "geeky" you will appear. My heart is broken by the terrible loss I have sustained in my old friends and companions and my poor soldiers. Believe me, nothing except a battle lost can be half so melancholy as a battle won. -Sir Arthur Wellesley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nadril Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Yeah, don't worry about your weight just to get a girl. I'd say, just try and become friends. Now, i'll tell this just from experience, but a lot of times I make friends with a girl I like, we end up getting to be realy good friends, and the thought of going out with a great friend of mine (as after a breakup the freindship may be over) is too much. But thats just from experience. If she has feelings for you it will go otherwise :). and also, don't worry about being too "geeky", just be your self. And like bari said, if you don't end up going with her, than bam you have a new friend. Usually it seems it's friends of mine (that are girls) 'freinds that like me... but most of them I have nothing in interest for. :) but for the weight, just don't overeat. It doesn't mean you can never eat candy or anything unhealthy, it just means eat everything in moderation. And, exercise helps a lot, certainly doesn't hurt. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Here's a simple formula for a decent relationship. Meet girl -> Talk to girl -> Become friends -> Become close friends. It takes a while so don't expect her to fall head over heels on you. Someone should make an EDU thread here so that people would just link it :? :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevester77 Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 http://forum.tip.it/viewforum.php?f=12 :oops: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evilperson Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Here's a simple formula for a decent relationship. Meet girl -> Talk to girl -> Become friends -> Become close friends. It takes a while so don't expect her to fall head over heels on you. Someone should make an EDU thread here so that people would just link it :? After watching the movie, "Just Friends", and having something so very close to the exact same thing happen, its not even funny. Sometimes its not good to become close friends :x Cept I am not fat like in the movie :lol: Everybody lovin' it, but ain't no body touchin' it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 The girl will be worth it if she likes you for what you are now. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Putter Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Just be yourself. If she likes you, yay. If not, shrug it off and keep looking. Changing yourself for a girl is a bad idea. I don't see why. It's clear that he feels overweight, and that is affecting his confidence, so why would losing weight be a bad thing? Plus, this gives him some motivation to change...Motivation will help him look how he wants, which will improve his confidence, then he will get more female attention...So even if he rejects him he'll have a better chance at someone else. Plus, it's not like he's changing his personality, or going on roids, or getting plastic surgery. He's trying to lose weight, and if he's 10 pounds overweight as he says he is, then why not? Just for knowledges sake, what is 10 pounds overweight? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Yeah, don't get me wrong, it's great you want to lose weight if you are overweight. I don't want to deter that. I'm just saying, that if the girl is worth it (I know: define "worth", I'm vague because I suck at relationships) she'll appreciate and like you the same now as she will when you lose those pounds. Change for yourself, not necessarily this girl. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barihawk Posted January 19, 2006 Share Posted January 19, 2006 Bubsa expresses my sentiments exactly. I mentioned losing weight would help him out with himself, not with the girl. I was under the impression that him asking for excercise tips was separate from the girl in the first place. EDIT: And be careful with losing weight. 4 lbs a week is good, 6 is pushing it. Anything over 7 is unhealthy for you. My heart is broken by the terrible loss I have sustained in my old friends and companions and my poor soldiers. Believe me, nothing except a battle lost can be half so melancholy as a battle won. -Sir Arthur Wellesley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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