I needs me advice.

[Death_By_Pod]

 

What happened was, everything seemed to go smooth on the date, but now she posted on her NotSafeForYou that it was "disgusting" and that I grabbed her in an inappropriate place.

 

 

 

 

So where did you exactly touch her (the most important part was left out of your post)? If it was the first couple of dates (and that youÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢re in high school), I would have been really weary about touching her. In my view younger people interpret physical contact as intruding on their personal space and unless she likes you, would feel somewhat uncomfortable about any personal contact (outside things like shaking hands, ushering her through a door you have open for her etc.), especially for a new date.

 

 

 

You might have thought putting an arm around her lower back or an arm just below the shoulders when walking around might have been a gentlemanly way of showing you care about her. However I wouldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t have really tried this unless you two were comfortable dating each other, I think you just took it a little to fast for her liking. If it was anything more personal then the above I could see why she was upset, just be glad that you can learn from your mistakes.

 

 

 

There isn't much you can do about rumours, welcome to high school social drama; you shouldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t worry too much about being labelled a pervert, rumours will pass with time. Once youÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢re out of high school most people couldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t care less or even remember what happened, especially for unsubstantiated rumours like this.

[fgfuyfyuiuy0]

Maybe what she is doing is trying to get her ex to become jealous and 'save' her and she's just using you. :\

[Faux]

Yeah, where did you touch her?

 

 

 

And damn man, if you're gonna pull a move, do it properly :|

[Kwisatz]

Yeah, where did you touch her?

 

 

 

And damn man, if you're gonna pull a move, do it properly :|

 

 

 

I didn't pull anything. I don't think it was "too fast" or anything since I had already done stuff like that during school and such with everybody watching, and it wasn't any "worse."

 

 

 

As for the rumor at this point nobody I know believes her and she has zero credibility at this point with regards to what happened. Thanks anyway though.

[Death_By_Pod]

 

I didn't pull anything. I don't think it was "too fast" or anything since I had already done stuff like that during school and such with everybody watching, and it wasn't any "worse."

 

 

 

 

That doesn't mean much; the school environment is completely different to a more private environment. Maybe she wasn't happy with it, but only went along with it because she was under pressure from her peers to act "normal." I'm not saying itÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s your fault, but sometimes how people behave around friends is completely different then without them. Anyway I can't really tell whatÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s going on from a couple of posts.

[darkmage099]

If you want to get serious like an actual relationship then id listen to the other guys but if youre looking for you know a relationship just for fun (i hope you know what imean) then go for it you have nothing to lose really. It sounds like you have good friends.

 

 

 

 

 

Dude...he doesn't need advice on that anymore.

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okay jeez you dont have to sound like i killed someone

[Bubsa]

If you want to get serious like an actual relationship then id listen to the other guys but if youre looking for you know a relationship just for fun (i hope you know what imean) then go for it you have nothing to lose really. It sounds like you have good friends.

 

Dude...he doesn't need advice on that anymore.

 

okay jeez you dont have to sound like i killed someone

 

Oh, you know, that's just what it sounds like.