TheRealist Posted June 14, 2006 Author Share Posted June 14, 2006 I don't understand how I don't have anybody to talk to in real life about this. What happened... :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 I'm sorry, man. But, you got TIF! \ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WutangFlu Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 thats what i do :-w :wall: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 I don't understand how I don't have anybody to talk to in real life about this. What happened... :cry: there is someone out there and it's probably the person you would last expect it from Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llovyn Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 One of the best things to do in my opinion, is to grab your iPod and go for a long jog.. Always helps me feel better about everything.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xJakex Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 Have a kip :). I'm Jake Milroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
god_of_omega Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 I listen to my music as loud as possible and just sit and think. It works for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omnislash42 Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 I know what you mean about not feeling like you have anyone to talk to in real life. I'll go ahead and ramble for a bit. I've got issues, I'll admit it. Home life hasn't been too great for years. I'm expected to be a person that I'm not, expected to have values that I don't, and expected to accept things that I just can't take. I don't feel like I can talk to my family about anything, there's just a rift. I've become the bad guy, and the parents just don't seem to be able to accept how I feel and the way I want to make decisions. It seemed to start 3 years ago. My mom's mom died and she started becoming a control freak, or it least it seems that way to me. I understand stuff like that can really mess you up, coping and all. But I've felt for a while that my parents don't trust me. I'd have to say feeling distrusted by parents is one of the worst feelings in the world. But they just want to decide who I'm going to be. One of the examples is they have this college picked out. It's this super Catholic, very conservative college out of the way from society. They have a set curriculum, no class choices. It's math, philosophy, theology, and reading the books of old dead guys. No sports, no music program, no journalism. About none of the things I love. It's become a big disagreement between me and the parents, and that just leads to problems in everything else. As for other people to talk to, I've got a lot of friends. I'm well liked. I play football, tennis, do journalism, music program stuff, some other academic clubs and groups, and I know about everybody and I'm liked by about everybody. But, like you, I don't feel like theres people to talk to. I used to open up a lot more. But I just started feeling guilty about it. I felt guilty about bringing my friends into my own messed up world and telling them what goes on in my head, taking them out of their happy world to complain. It made me feel like a whiner. It's probably just me, but even when they say that I can talk to them about stuff like this, I feel like they don't really care. It's tough, and it's probably not true. But sometimes you can't change the way things seem. Then I got involved with drugs. Nothing too dangerous. But it's alienated me a little bit from some of the people I used to talk to about how I feel. They don't approve of it, and I don't want to feel like I'm being judged. I respect people's opinions when it comes to an anti-drug stance, but I don't want to be looked down upon for it. I'm an escapist. I really don't know what to do with free time, and it's rough during the summer. During school, I've got football in the fall, weights, tennis, journalism, some other stuff I compete in... A lot of stuff that lets me hide from the bad. Summer, there's too much time to think. Anyways. I figure I just have to make sure I don't do anything too stupid for the next year. I think things'll turn out alright when I get to college. Things'll mellow out, even out, problems will disappear and I'll start to figure things out. Writing helps. I was having a bad time, picked up a notebook and started rambling. It's good to let loose your story, whether its somewhere like here or just in a hidden journal. Music... The music I start to listen to when I get depressed just makes things worse. It's tough, but you'll make it through. Thanks to anyone who actually read all of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tintmangbpack Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Bubsa, I would never guess you are bipolar. I really think I am. I might get medical advice about it but on the other hand I don't want to. I cover it up well. Really, there's no shame in going to see a doctor once you accept that you might have this depression. The doctor should never force you into treatment you don't want. You could just go for the diagnosis, but I'm sure the doc will come up with good exercises you can do. It's no way this pre-conception of disorder - outcast - pills. Not at all. You've taken the first steps pal, and I'm proud of you. It is so true about the doctor, When I first went in I felt lame because I should have been able to help my self, but the doctor helped me so much with ways to get out of depression and how to help prevent it. I would definetly recommend seeing a doctor. A lot of places have a deal where your first time is free, I can't think of any major ones but I am sure you can find something that suits you. Your true character is what you are like when you believe there are no repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasesco Posted June 15, 2006 Share Posted June 15, 2006 Here are some songs that might get you hype and your face like this --) 8-) seriously man: Que se sienta - Yomo ft. Hector el Father No quiere novio - ÃÆÃââââ¬ÃÅejo Ft. Tego Calderon So amazing - Jagged Edge Ft. Voltio 8-) \ oh yeah I SURVIVED THE 111 BUG If a turtle doesnt have a shell, is it naked or homeless ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRealist Posted June 15, 2006 Author Share Posted June 15, 2006 I might see a doctor, but I'm actually feeling better today... I think it's my friends. Well, my best friend anyway, can really upset me sometimes. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lowelife0 Posted June 17, 2006 Share Posted June 17, 2006 Beleave it or not, I lissen to angry, sad songs. Like "Clown" (From Korn) and "Lonely Day" (From SOAD. If you want to hear these songs, go to MTV, then go to overdrive, and find them. It's better to look your insecurity in the eye. It backs off a bit after that. Another good thing you can do is be REALLY nice to people. If you've been mean to someone over the last few months, say you're sorry. Extend the hand of friendship. Trust me, feeling good is all about makeing other people feel good. Or you can tell your RuneScape friends about this. Hour long conversations with people can help you. I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel I have no friends, others it seems like everyone is. If you can't feel any better, contact me ingame. My runescape name is the same as my Tip.It name. Good luck dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goldwolflord Posted June 17, 2006 Share Posted June 17, 2006 I listen to music... Even though I listen to rock it tends to help... Or have some sugar... Lucazade... Energy drinks... Sugary cereals... Chocolate... Energy foods. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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