rushrock Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 I'm back :D Nice to see this was kept bumped :P Anyways, The funeral changed nothing. She went up saying great things about the people who lived with the dead person and left saying hurtful comments behind their backs because of how they ran the funeral and their funeral arrangments for themselves. I was trying to show she was obviously wrong in a subtle way but she refused to believe it and still behaved badly towards me. So, I was a bit angry and it showed in what I did. Now, when I get home, and she changes her mind about what she asked me, say's "I'm in more trouble than Speed Gordon (she overuses that phrase)" Gah, I guess theres no more point in trying :( May as well just wait out the 5 years till I can move out. :? Grrr... Your lack of faith in yourself disturbs me...:? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 I was feeling as if suicide was a good option because my parents always found ways out of everyday situations and my school life was bad and other bad things in my life. I know I would never actually do it but I still felt it would be better if I did. But school has gotten better and I havent felt like that for a long time. I think after that statement it shows that you feel sorry for yourself too much, and don't look to the future. You kill yourself now and waste a whole lifetime ahead of yourself. Pretty stupid if you ask me (or anyone with their heads screwed on). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiimben Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 About the having to wait till I move out to be free of her. In that case, well, yeah I guess I have lack of faith there. But still, hopefully (or if theres some alternative option) have her be involved in a life threatening situation or something that makes her appreciate everything more. But, I'll keep on trucking till then :? I would still like some advice on the situation if you have any. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rushrock Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 About the having to wait till I move out to be free of her. In that case, well, yeah I guess I have lack of faith there. But still, hopefully (or if theres some alternative option) have her be involved in a life threatening situation or something that makes her appreciate everything more. But, I'll keep on trucking till then :? I would still like some advice on the situation if you have any. Stand up for yourself and express your opinions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiimben Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 That is the reason she yells at me and she continues it for days. Thanks for your help, but yeah, expressing my opinions won't help the situation :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rushrock Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 That is the reason she yells at me and she continues it for days. Thanks for your help, but yeah, expressing my opinions won't help the situation :( If you be strong about your opinions, then yes, I think they will work. Stand up to your mom. (Is your problem really this bad?!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Well, luckily it was my Brother who went through the same, and not me... So i was forced to spectate... It was bad enough watching, so i feel for the sufferers. Im sure you'll come to turns with them soon... I remember it all ended one night when my Parents had a huge talk with my Brother - Lasted like 3 hours o.O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
One Too Far Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Try earning your independence. As a kid, my parents would never let me cross the highway where most of the kids lived. It took a long time to convince them to let me cross. When I did for the first time, it was much easier to get them to let me go the second time. After the fourth of fifth time, I could just tell them I was going and they let me. Though, you have to understand that your parents love you. They just don't want to see you go wondering off, get hit by a car, or get kidnapped, even though the odds of something like this are very small. My parents used to tell me that they trust me, but they don't trust all of the crazy people out there. :) mine also always say they trust me but not the crazy world =p oh gosh i hate that bull and on topic just try to get a lil more evry time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiimben Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 Thanks all, @Rushrock- I haven't lied about anything in the thread. I think I'll just try to put up with it till she stops. I've got some things to relieve my anger. Stress balls and running on the treadmill and such :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssalwhip Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 im sorry your parents are going against you. :( the best thing to do right now is probably agree with your parents decisions, even if it sounds bad, parents cant harm or do anything bad to you. hope everything turns out well, stay out of trouble, especally suicide :oops:Watch the news more Your name is "bet you fail", and you're starting a business with your mom? I'm not even going to touch that..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiimben Posted January 7, 2007 Author Share Posted January 7, 2007 What he means is most of it now is classed as physical abuse which is against the law :? In Australia, I'm pretty sure, a disciplinary smack or something will be classed as physical abuse. Not sure if they are in arguments or has been passed or whatnot :-k Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pc_Grey_Fox Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 To get respect from some people, you have to earn it. To get it from others, you have to take it. Now, we only have one side of the story, but it sounds like you'll have to put your parents in their place. Like an above poster said (sorry, didn't grab your name) you have to stand up for yourself. But it doesn't have to be overt... taking their power away by being silent will at least have some effect, if only to make them think you need help. Just be careful; you need to be utterly silent. If they get a reaction out of you, all that work you've put in will have been lost. Besides that, just remember happiness is a state of mind. You make it for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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